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The narcissist will refuse to discuss…

The narcissist will refuse to discuss what triggered you, but they'll gladly demonize how you reacted. They'll twist the narrative to shift the focus away from their own harmful behavior and onto your emotional response. They'll gaslight you into believing that your feelings are the problem, that you're the one who's too sensitive, too emotional, too crazy.

They'll use your reaction as evidence of your supposed flaws, as proof that you're the one who's broken, who's defective. They'll tell you that you're overreacting, that you're being too dramatic, that you're making a big deal out of nothing.

But they'll never, ever take responsibility for their own actions. They'll never acknowledge the hurt they've caused, the pain they've inflicted. They'll never validate your feelings or apologize for their own behavior.

Instead, they'll continue to manipulate and control, using your emotional response as a weapon against you. They'll use it to silence you, to shame you, to keep you in line.

But don't fall for it. Don't let them convince you that your feelings are the problem. Don't let them gaslight you into believing that you're the one who's crazy.

You are not crazy. Your feelings are valid. And the narcissist's behaviour is not your fault.

Moon Behind Big Sur, Doorway to the Universe

i’ll wait like a dog for you

crawling at your feet

begging for scraps from the dinner table

but i’m happier here

because you told me i should be

looking up at you from my shallow grave

my body grows cold as i wait for the next time you’ll want me

you’re the one who haunts me at night

watching as i call your name when i cum

What if she is lying like a sack of potatoes 🥔 🙄 ....

telling her "fuck i'm gonna cum" while your head is resting against hers and you're rutting into her and all she does is wrap her legs around you and tells you to go harder 😵‍💫

WHAT'S YOUR SIGN?

PISCES - THE SEX ADDICT(2/19-3/20) EXTREMELY adorable. Intelligent. Loves to joke. Very Good sense of humor Energetic. Predict future. BEST kisser. Always get what they want. Very Attractive Easy going. RARE Find. GOOD when found. Loves being in long relationship Talkative. Romantic. Caring. NOT one to give up. 16 years of luck if you repost.

GEMINI- CRAVES A LOT OF SEX (5/21-6/20) Outgoing. Lovable. Extremely energetic. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny. Excellent kisser. EXTREMELY adorable. Good personalities. Loves relationships.Addictive. Loud. 16 years of luck if you repost.

TAURUS- THE ONE U CAN’T TOUCH & SEX ADDICT (4/20-5/20) Coldest motha fucka on earth. Outgoing, Loveable, the best in bed, strong, artistic, caring person, The MOST Irresistible of all, popular, Unpredictable, STUBBORNN, 16 years of luck if you repost.

ARIES - THE PLAYER (3/21-4/19) Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners ... Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out. Always happy. Loud. Talkative. Outgoing. VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE. 9 years of luck if you repost.

AQUARIUS - THAT NIGGA (1/20-2/18) Very high appeal. Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Very caring person ! Entirely creative. Extremely random and proud of it. Freak. Spontaneous. Great at telling Stories. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to. 12 years of luck if you repost.

CANCER - HARD LOVER (6/22-7/22) Trustworthy. Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind. Loves being In long-term relationships. Extremely energetic. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Normally not a Fighter, but will if neccessary. Someone loves them right now. 2 years of luck if you repost.

LEO - THE SEX MANIAC (7/23-8/22) Very talkative, outgoing and popular. Nice to everyone they meet. Wild and ravenous in the bed and everywhere else. Beautiful smile and personality. Strong intuition. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, Fun and SEXY. Have own unique appeal. Irresistible lover. Most caring person you’ll ever meet! However not the kind of person you wanna mess with...they will kick your ass... u might end up crying... 10 years of luck if you repost.

VIRGO - THE BEST SEXUAL PARTNER (8/23-9/22) Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. EXTREMELY SEXY. Predict future. Loves being in long relationships. Has lots of friends. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. Also not a fighter, but if they have to, they will also knock the lights out of you if it comes down to it.Cool. Loves to own Geminis’ in sports. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart. 24 years of luck if you repost.

LIBRA - THE PIMP (9/23-10/22) Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor. Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. 5 years of luck if you repost.

SCORPIO - THE VIRGIN (10/23-11/21) Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good fight for what they want. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Best kisser. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person. ONE OF A KIND.Gorgeous Smile.Not one to mess with. The best sexual partners in the zodiac. Are the most attractive people on earth! 15 years of luck if you repost.

SAGITTARIUS - THE ONE (11/22-12/21) Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in the you know where..!!! Not the kind of person you wanna mess with- you might end up crying! Caring and kind. Smart. Loyal. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor. Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet. 5 years of luck if you repost.

CAPRICORN - THE SEXY ONE (12/22-1/19) Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always Wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Sweet. Loud. Loyal. Beautiful. Goofy. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. Loves to smile. Beautiful laugh. Patient. Cautious. Bit of naughty.The one and only. 7 Years of luck if you repost

💫CHARMING AWAKENING 💫

I learned from my mother how to love

the living, to have plenty of vases on hand

in case you have to rush to the hospital

with peonies cut from the lawn, black ants

still stuck to the buds. I learned to save jars

large enough to hold fruit salad for a whole

grieving household, to cube home-canned pears and peaches, to slice through maroon grape skins, and flick out the sexual seeds with a knife point.

I learned to attend viewings even if I didn’t know the deceased, to press the moist hands of the living, to look in their eyes and offer sympathy, as though I understood loss even then.

I learned that whatever we say means nothing, what anyone will remember is that we came. I learned to believe I had the power to ease awful pains materially like an angel.

Like a doctor, I learned to create from another’s suffering my own usefulness, and once you know how to do this, you can never refuse.

To every house you enter, you must offer healing: a chocolate cake you baked yourself, the blessing of your voice, your chaste touch.

How does it feel to share your wife?

Open relationships and non-monogamous arrangements involve consensually and ethically engaging in romantic or sexual relationships with multiple partners. Here are some dos and don'ts to consider:

Dos:

Communication: Open and honest communication is crucial. Discuss your desires, boundaries, and expectations with your partner(s) openly and regularly.

Consent: All parties involved should provide informed and enthusiastic consent to ensure that everyone is comfortable with the arrangement.

Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries and rules that everyone agrees upon. These boundaries may include rules about safe sex, emotional involvement, or time management.

Respect: Treat all partners with respect and kindness. Respect their feelings and emotions, and be considerate of their needs.

Safe Sex: Practicing safe sex is essential to protect everyone's health. Discuss and agree on safe sex practices with all partners.

Regular Check-Ins: Continue to communicate and check in with your partner(s) and yourself to ensure that the arrangement is working for everyone involved.

Seek Support: Consider seeking support or guidance from a therapist or counselor experienced in non-monogamous relationships if you encounter challenges.

Don'ts:

Don't Cheat: Non-monogamy should always be consensual. Cheating or breaking established rules can lead to trust issues and harm in the relationship.

Don't Assume: Never assume that your partner(s) are comfortable with a particular situation or arrangement. Always ask and discuss.

Don't Neglect Existing Relationships: If you're in a primary or existing relationship, make sure to prioritize and nurture it. Non-monogamy should enhance, not replace, your current relationship(s).

Don't Ignore Emotions: Emotions like jealousy, insecurity, and fear can arise in non-monogamous relationships. Don't ignore these feelings; address them with open communication.

Don't Rush: Take your time in exploring non-monogamy. Rushing into it without proper communication and preparation can lead to problems.

Remember that non-monogamy isn't for everyone, and it's essential to find a relationship structure that works best for you and your partner(s). What's most important is that all parties involved feel comfortable, respected, and fulfilled within the agreed-upon arrangement.