yes i see that you're femme4butch, but do you recognize that being a safe space for butches comes before your attraction? how do you feel about butch4butch couples, or butch stone bottoms? do you give them the same level of respect as you do to butches who you find attractive? what about stone butches? do you see them as people, or as a outlet to receive sexual pleasure? do you enjoy butch friendship, or do you only hope to gain romantic attention?
what about femmes? do you look to build community with other femmes, or do you see them as competition to receive butch attention? do you understand butchfemme history and the history of your identity? and most importantly, do your prioritize community above your own attraction?
“are you really going to tear a friendship apart over different opinions??”
listen, I got tons of friends who like pineapple on their pizza, but once you reach that “you, your community, or other marginalized communities don’t deserve basic human rights or even perhaps the right to live” level, you should just accept that it’s your fault no one wants to be your friend.
happy disability pride month to people who experience psychosis!
people with schizophrenia
schizoaffective disorder
cluster A personality disorders
bipolar type one
depression with psychotic features
PTSD with psychotic features
postpartum psychosis
delusional disorder
unlabeled experiences with psychosis
people who choose not to consider their experiences of unreality disordered
all of us!
spuffy
Why do people want to praise Taylor Swift as an LGBTQ+ icon (and even act like she’s openly lgbt) so much when there’s people out there who’re actually open about being part of the community?
I wish Hayley Kiyoko received all this praise and recognition as TS does, because Hayley is actually very open about her being lgbt.
Someone reblogged that post of mine saying how people will assume a lesbian saying “I don’t like men” means “I hate men” with a very interesting phrase:
Men would rather believe they’re hated than recognizing they’re irrelevant sexually and romantically to certain people (lesbians).
I'm dying 😭
Quinta à noite.
this is so fucking insidious
Vampire / Werewolf girlfriends🩸🐺