Why Do People Want To Praise Taylor Swift As An LGBTQ+ Icon (and Even Act Like She’s Openly Lgbt) So

yes i see that you're femme4butch, but do you recognize that being a safe space for butches comes before your attraction? how do you feel about butch4butch couples, or butch stone bottoms? do you give them the same level of respect as you do to butches who you find attractive? what about stone butches? do you see them as people, or as a outlet to receive sexual pleasure? do you enjoy butch friendship, or do you only hope to gain romantic attention?

what about femmes? do you look to build community with other femmes, or do you see them as competition to receive butch attention? do you understand butchfemme history and the history of your identity? and most importantly, do your prioritize community above your own attraction?

Buffy the Vampire Slayer | 4.09 “Something Blue”

lesbophobia does not invalidate, negate, or take precedence over biphobia. biphobia does not invalidate, negate or take precedence over lesbophobia. both forms of discrimination coexist and deserve to be discussed and taken seriously. neither is more important or more valid than the other. our experiences being different does not mean that they are contradictory, or that the existence of one means the other is erased. stop positioning us at odds with each other. if we can’t have meaningful conversations about how lesbophobia and biphobia both manifest in different ways and how they affect us, we aren’t going to get anywhere.

Poor Vander, he is a patient dad xD

Lore in Buffy is of course extremely loosey goosey but I will never not love that a number 2 pencil counts for the purpose of a wooden stake to the heart for vampire slayage

Spike and Drusilla in Spike’s Car, from Buffy the Vampire Slayer. James Marsters as Spike and Juliet Landau as Drusilla. Watercolour on paper.

im running on a solid 14 minutes of sleep so have this sevika pic for the day 🫴😌

When will my husband (Ao3) return from war (is up again)