I Feel Like An Old Beaten Up Dog That Is Just Wandering Around Looking For Someone, Anyone, To Love Me.

Please stop apologizing for having a heart that feels everything so deeply. It's a gift, wear it proudly.

You deserve to eat because you exist, that’s all there is to it

Hey, cis women who say "I wish I was a man but definitely not a trans way, haha! I would never be a man :)"

I say this with all the gentleness in my heart: It is okay for you to be a man. If you want to be a man, you can just be one. You also don't have to stop being a woman to be a man. Multigender people exist. You can be a man and a woman at the same time. Or you can be just a man, or a non-binary man, or non-binary, or something entirely different. You can do and be whatever you want and whatever makes you happy.

Becoming a man is not a betrayal of womanhood and feminism. And everyone who makes you feel like it is an absolute asshole, and you should not ever listen to them. You do not have to push your own happiness aside for other peoples' comfort.

If you want to be a man, try it out! See where it gets you. Maybe it turns out that you really weren't trans, or not a trans man but something else entirely, and that's fine, too. Maybe it turns out you are a trans man. In any case, following those thoughts might get you to a happier and better place in the end. And if you turn out to be happier as a man than you were as a woman, that is wonderful.

Please don't feel forced to stay a cis woman for feminism - any feminism that mistreats or hates trans men and transmasculine people is bad feminism. Being a trans man or transmasc is not a moral failure.

Trans manhood and masculinity are wonderful, and you deserve happiness. And if you find that happiness in manhood/masculinity, you don't deserve to be shamed or harassed for it, and you should not be made to feel the need to put yourself down for it, either.

Just a reminder to all my fellow fat folks...

You deserve to be loved.

You don't have to settle for anyone who's with you "in spite of" your fatness.

You have nothing to be ashamed of.

You don't owe anyone an explanation of why you're fat.

Every inch of you is worthy of respect, kindness, and appreciation.

This applies to every. single. one of you. Regardless of your race, gender, religion, politics, where you're from, whatever. I know how hard it is, but please remember that.

If you struggle to brush and floss daily, please consider prioritizing your oral health in 2025

You are worth the effort it takes to care for your teeth and every effort you make will make a difference.

If you've only got it in you to take care of one hygeine thing, choose teeth brushing and flossing.

Teeth are such a large part of your daily life and slowly losing them to decay and everything else is so painful and expensive.

I wish only the best for you. So if getting a daily reminder on your dash would be helpful for you, give this blog a follow.

I implore everyone to take their oral health seriously. You will save yourself so much pain and money in the future. 🫶