s/o motivation
them zipping up your dress before an event (or vice versa)
running your hands through their hair while they lay their head in your lap
them racing around the house helping you look for something you lost
creating a shared playlist together
loudly singing together no matter how bad you guys sound
splitting up chores and helping the other
tying their tie before an event
holding hands while walking through paparazzi
them having their hand on your thigh (or the other way around) or just holding hands under the awards show table
them tearing up during your award acceptance speech
them not being able to keep their hands off of you
the hugs from behind
them laughing into your neck after you say something
them pushing you into a pool and laughing but then asking if you’re okay
splashing each other in the water
chasing each other around
them throwing you over their shoulder or bridal style spinning you around
just laughing together.
them taking off your makeup and helping you out of your clothes when you’re too tired
you helping them out of their clothes when they’re too tired
taking a shower together just wanting to help clean and care for each other
taking care of them when they’re sick
them taking care of you when you’re sick
both of you being so tired you just sit in silence and hold each other
giving them a nickname no one else can use
you both alternating driving during a long trip so both of you can rest
knowing what the other is thinking based off a look
knowing what the other is feeling without saying anything
waking up to them peacefully sleeping with messy hair
them coming home and just resting their head on you
watching edits of each other and sending them back and forth
their face lighting up as soon as your name is mentioned
Stop Procrastinating Shifting Nah, you're not "waiting for the right time", you're just avoiding your own power and I love you, but get the fuck up and do something. We are all out here saying we want to shift. We believe in it (more or less for some people). We yearn and dream about or DR, about that hot looking, successful and potentially emotionally stable version of ourselves. But lets take a look at what we are actually doing a lot of times. Scrolling through shifting posts.... again. Because we haven't done that the last few days, huh? Re-reading the same LoA post hoping it hits a bit different this time (it doesn't). Shuffling unnecessary shit around in our scripts, because changing where the "About Me" section is will unlock the cheat code to the multiverse somehow. Telling ourselves "I'll do it tonight if the vibes feel right". And then we fall asleep before we get the second affirmation out because we pushed back sleeping and trying for 4 hours at this point. Busted, huh? When we are constantly doing that, we are neither manifesting nor shifting, we are just mentally pacing in circles like a neurotic racoon. This isn't preparing... it's procrastinating. I say this with all the love I can come up with after only 4 hours of sleep: There is no perfect attempt. You just need to fucking start doing something. The chances you will shift by only tweaking your script over and over and over again, waiting for something to happen, are rather low. The chances you will wake up one day and say "Yes! I have been enlightened and now I am ready!" in regards to shifting are also low. Because you are already ready! You have been from the moment you got the definition of shifting thrown your way. I think most of us are just scared to fuck it up and "fail". Of course it's sometimes scary to want something so bad it makes us cry and all we can do is manifest and hope for the best. But delaying that shit won't make that scary feeling go away. It just gives doubts more time to invade your thoughts. Can we all agree to drop the thought of needing a 27 step pre shifting routine, stop pretending that we need to be "in the right headspace" while trying to shift and to stop expecting motivation to just suddenly appear like a convenient divine ass-kicking as if it is needed? Yeah? Great. We'll just start anyway. Picking some random fucking method, doesn't matter which one. Saying our affirmations even if we feel like a delusional nutjob. Just.. trying. Doing something, anything really. Even if we suck at focusing or visualizing. Just do it anyway. Showing up and doing something even if it is not perfect is pulling your brain away from being scared of fucking it up. Build that momentum. We shift through starting and doing, not through running away from shifting ^-^
me when another shifter has the same dr s/o as me: ☺️
me when a non-shifter likes my dr s/o:
When shifters talk about methods that involve emotions or the environment, it often sounds like you have to feel something intense for it to work.
I used to believe that too — that I had to live and breathe my symptoms for it to "work" that they had to be exaggerated and overwhelming for shifting to happen.
But here’s the truth: shifting doesn’t need to be felt to happen.
Shifting isn’t about chasing signs. It’s not about how strongly you imagine your bedsheets changing, or how much emotion fills your chest. In fact, clinging to those feelings often just grounds you "deeper" into this reality. It can make you over-focus, doubt, and overthink.
Shifting often feels like nothing at all.
There are no overwhelming emotions you must experience to prove to yourself it’s happening.
when will you realise that in order to shift to your desired reality you simply have to DECIDE?
shifting is an action, nothing more, it’s a decision you take whenever you do anything. you assumed you were here your whole life, but now you’re sick of this and want to change? then change your assumptions. DECIDE TO BE IN YOUR DR INSTEAD. why would you look at the 3d? it’s showing you the opposite results? no, it’s not happening. it’s an illusion of your past dominant thoughts, and now that you know it you just have to BE IN YOUR DR. the physical plane will only obey automatically because you’re the main essence of this multiverse. you’re the creator, why limit yourself and be your own enemy?
be brave and independent.
you’re already there, just decide.
HAPPY BELATED VALENTINE’S DAY
omg tumblr im so sorry i forgot i had this app again... anyways more jurdan 🙂↕️
não, você não vai se tornar bonita. sabe porquê?porque você sempre foi. como você irá se tornar algo que você já é?
você não atrai algo que você já tem
você já é tudo, você já tem tudo
"a mais o 3d" o 3d é o reflexo do que você pensa
Parece que alguns de vocês esquecem que é pra vocês pensarem que já tem o que vocês querem, então para de ficar falando que AINDA VAI ter alguma coisa ou AINDA VAI ser alguma coisa
esquecam o 3d, vivam na cabeça de vocês e o mais importante: apenas sejam :)
How I feel after saying "you only live once" in a room full of non-shifters (I know damn well you don't)
let shifting consume you. punch the overthinking as if you would punch a nazist. everytime a bad thought arises do two sets of i am too cunt to be bothered by this. be a narcissist and understand that you are superior than a word (shifting) used to describe your birth right. have an ego of a 5’6 man with a lethal face card. you are soul with a body, not the contrary, so just choose which one you want to be in.
stop treating shifting as this huge great freaky thing.
it’s NORMAL. you’ve been doing this shit for years by now, even right after you were born.
it should be something casual to you, not some thing you force and obsess over.
decide where you want to go and let it come to you naturally.
remember that it’s something so damn normal, you just forgot about it for a while, but now you remembered and that’s what matters.