“Sometimes we just have to cut off the dead branches in our life. Sometimes that’s the only way we can keep the tree alive. It’s hard and it hurts, but it’s what’s best.”
— Nicole Williams
strawberry thieves: you're a basic bitch and there's nothing wrong with that. those little fuckers are cute
tree of life: you think we all moved on from the whimsigoth trend way too soon
pimpernel: you're going to put an Alphonse Mucha print on top of this and you know it
voysey: you're a massive goth. you've probably watched Bram Stoker's Dracula a lot
blackthorn: you're a massive goth who doesn't like making things too hard on yourself
willow boughs: you say "timeless" "classic" and "modern twist" a lot when decorating your house
owl and willow: admit it- you really just want mid-19th century panoramic wallpaper
melsetter: admit it- you really just want 15th-century Gobelin tapestries
lodden: you genuinely believe, deep down, that you will decode the Voynich Manuscript someday
marigold: you enjoy versatility. you probably own the same shirt in four colors- and why shouldn't you?
balmoral: your ringtone is Rule, Brittania
I don't have a favorite Morris print because I prefer [insert another late 19th century textile/wallpaper designer here]: you are a hipster
I don't have a favorite Morris print because I don't know any: you have a social life
This hit home, and I think it will resonate hard with all my creative friends, here. You are amazing and brilliant and I BEG YOU to keep creating!! ❤️❤️❤️
Katherine Mansfield, from a diary entry dated October 26 1921
https://www.thecut.com/2018/11/im-broke-and-friendless-and-ive-wasted-my-whole-life.html
Don’t sabotage your peace because chaos is familiar
WRITE!! WHAT!! YOU!! WANT!!
If you don't love your writing, no one else will!
See, the thing is, as a writer you are free. You are about the freest person that ever was. Your freedom is what you have bought with your solitude, your loneliness. You are in the country where you make up the rules, the laws. You are both dictator and obedient populace. It is a country nobody has ever explored before. It is up to you to make the maps, to build the cities. Nobody else in the world can do it, or ever could do it, or ever will be able to do it again.
Ursula K. Le Guin, The Language of the Night.
Posting this for the people who think that Tolkien's world-building was something complete and entire and finished before he started to write.
You always learn and discover your story and your world as you write. Sometimes you are just the first reader.
I hope you believe that you can still make a beautiful life for yourself even if you lost many years of it to grief, or darkness, depression, or a wound that wouldn't close.