Don't Call Us "sysmeds", Call Us Anti-endos.

What the hell.

Can we discuss how anti-recovery that community is? Seriously.

You shouldn't be proud of having a paraphilia. Call me ableist or whatever, I don't care. Paraphilias involving living creatures or once living creatures need to be dealt with. I don't care if you don't act on it, it's still gross.

And don't come at me as if I couldn't possibly understand. I hate being vulnerable but I went through some screwed up shit and have some harmful paras myself. I fucking hate that and am trying to recover and never, ever act upon them. Nor do I flaunt them. I'm ashamed of it and believe that others should be too.

Also what the hell is the cereal bowl in the para emojis? 🤨😭

dear god do i wanna ask what the fucking emojis mean

Amen.

you are valid if

your system has mostly introjects

your system has few or no introjects

your system has lots of amnesia and barriers between alters

your system has no or very little amnesia and barriers

you have a personality or mood disorder on top of being a system

you have lots of alters

you only have a few alters

you experience psychosis or some psychotic disorder

you're heavy in one or more alter roles

you have alters with no roles or who dot know what their roles are

you still live with people who caused you trauma

you're still in relationships with people who hurt you

you struggle with taking care of the body

you have nonhuman alters

you have invisible disabilities

you have physical disabilities

you and your system are valid. no matter your situation or trauma you are valid and we're proud of you for making it this far and doing your best each day. we wholeheartedly wish the best for you all

no one person let alone any system is meant to fit in a box, whether you do or not match up to the "standard" system description youre still valid. youre still loved. youre still amazing.

after everything we've all gone through we all deserve some good things so we like making these posts every now and then to put some positivity in the community.

regardless of what your system looks like youre still entirely valid. dont let anyone ever tell you otherwise.

Endos and supporters stay the fuck off this post.

I've experienced similar things. Every endo that has responded to me, on this blog and on other platforms, has brought up the "there's little to no research on this disorder so there's no way to know" argument. Yeah, no shit. That's why I don't believe that you're real. There's no evidence to say you are real. No study has been done yet on endos. You can't prove anything.

Endos and supporters use the little research argument to prove that they are real. Babe, you aren't making a point.

It's like saying magic is real because no one has documented it yet. Sounds dumb, yeah?

I do not care. Endogenic systems aren't real systems. They are taking our real, debilitating experiences, and using them for pitty and internet points.

I have been told to kill myself

I have been told I'm lucky to have trauma

I've been told I am lucky to be so fucked up

I've been told I'm lucky to have such severe PTSD

All from endogenics.

I will not consider them real systems until I am given a legitimate, scientific study, proving me wrong.

That is my opinion. If that makes you mad, block me.

My disorder will not be used to gain sympathy.

You can't become autistic.

The sequel to racism moment; ablelist moment

what

Finally remembered how to login, hello.

While I'm at this rage train, disabled is not an identity. At all. In no circumstance.

This blog is not safe for so-called "transabled" people. I block on sight. Don't even bother interacting because you're wasting your time AND outing yourself.

You're ableist and it's fetishy and gross. You can post all the positivity you want but that doesn't change the fact that your behavior is disgusting and you should look into getting psychiatric help.

Because the only thing that could cause you to think this way is a psychiatric condition such as BIID. People who are in therapy for their BIID or recognize they need therapy are welcome to interact <3

That's not an excuse to be an ableist, though. Disabled people are trying to get healthcare as is and you think you deserve to be treated differently because you want to be disabled? Are you LARPing rn?

You people want this so badly you choose to attempt to appropriate an entire marginalized community's experience. And it's the same with a lot of so-called endogenic systems.

Lots of overlap in shitty behavior here. I'm just saying what I have a feeling we're all thinking. ✨

Ty ✨

I’m vaguposting here (I know eww) but uuuuuh…

if you believe you can identify as a different race than the one you were born with (especially given how race is treated around the globe) and treat it under the umbrella of trans identifying persons you need to take a long hard look at your privilege

On an even further note saying that not supporting the idea of being transracial is not supporting BLM…honey your mindset is ALM YOU’RE the one that’s anti-BLM

Also not to beat a dead horse but MEDICAL CONDITIONS CANNOT AND SHOULD NOT BE PUT UNDER AN IDENTITY LABEL IT’S INSULTING TO BOTH THE TRANS COMMUNITY AND THE DISABLED COMMUNITY

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being a system is a disorder. your brain is not SUPPOSED to have alters. alters exist as a SURVIVAL MECHANISM. you can’t have alters and claim to be non disordered. did/osdd can’t form after childhood. you can’t have alters and claim that trauma didn’t cause it.

think this is gatekeeping? good. it’s a fucking mental illness, people. not a god damn xenogender.

Woah, you want trauma survivors to suffer and think we're monsters? You're so cool, man.

Sarcasm, obviously.

Might aswell make an intro post since the old host is gone.

Hi, I’m Sunny. I use nya/nyas, he/him, meow/meows, mew/mews, purr/purrs and a bunch of other cat related neos. I’m a prosecutor, perpetrator, avenger and whatever other thing can describe me being fucking PISSED at what people did to us, and now i hurt people soooo.. If you dont like me, cool, i don’t fucking care. im mean. ill be making my own blog soon. oh but im nice to pro-endos and pro-tulpas! so hehe. other than that im mean to sysmeds and i want them to suffer. so yeah thats me, will be making a new blog of my own soon sooo if you like me then feel free to check it out when its done