Mornings Don’t Have To Be The Roughest Part Of The Day. By Taking On A Couple Simple Habits, You Can

Don't know why, once a year seemed a long time span for me. But now if i hear 15 billion years ago, "really,within so small time, a lot of things happened!" it seems too small to me :(

Laziness is overcome when you have a great purpose of life. The purpose will be bigger than you.

Dandapani

And who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music.

- Friedrich Nietzsche

Oh i answered these, really?

9 11 15 19 20 for the ask 😜😎

9.Best month for you this year?

rn my head is blank. oho is it december really>? when had the year gone? I think the year did not go well but the best month was January( whatever I say about college, new new college, new new feelings! ;)

11. Something you want to do again next year?

Hmm. That’s a difficult question. Practically I want to take SAT again next year(lol). But if you say about habit, I want to be strong in any hard circumstances I am going to face next year like this year.(only u know frnd what I had to face this yr and I did not break down)

15.What’s a bad habit you picked up this year?

Oh! A lot!! Firstly sleeping habits. I slept about 10 hrs every day this yr on average. Secondly. my thinking habit(to lie in the bed in the daytime for thinking—>  sleeping—->omg 3 hrs gone!) Thirdly, increasing screen time( tremendously upsurged(abt 9 to 10 hrs per day)) and finally ADHD. I remembered I was totally a nerd in 2018 and now? OMG. It’s not me really.

19. What’re you excited about for next year?

I generally don’t become excited regarding any matter. But next year(most prolly) I will finally decide my life’s goal—> that can’t but exciting.

20. What’s something you learned this year?

The amount is too big that I will not be able to express in words. Actually, I learned from very small fixes of my life. And I can not help saying about your advice every day. Our discussions were really very informative over every topic( philosophical also XD). I learned how to stay calm in the worst conditions. I learned how to give mental support to my family. I learned I am also important to someone :)

#thanks for asking #end year asks #answered by rasha #asked by fahmida

Not the ultimate result, Let's love the process, win the moment!

Hard work , never ever goes in vain . Never . If you fail, it doesn't mean you will fail the next time even if work hard. It will be always with you, your memories of working hard. You will gain help from this works. Don't lose your inner light .

I have several experiences of doing works on a whim; still, I do. 

For some cases, those were life-changing. For some, those were adventurous. For most cases, they were waste of time.

But what I suggest is to take the last step after being mentally “ready”: don’t deceive yourself. You know yourself the most. 

I do mistakes. She does mistakes. She learns from it; I stress out thinking “I did mistakes”. Result: she has already changed the game. I repeat the mistake again and stress out.

Sometimes you think

Others have to value your opinion. Others have to accept your opinion. But why? It's not bad to be unique. It’s not necessary to be in a mob always. It's normal that others will not able to realize the hidden significance of your opinion. They will laugh, they will mock. But why will you disobey your own heart?

It's not always necessary to ignore the unique ideas you get in your mind. It’s not necessary to obey the traditional rule always. Do you fear the failure? Then what's the necessity of this living by only keeping yourself in the comfort zone? You have to cling to your unique idea WHATEVER happens.

IT’S YOU. (Others don't matter always)

#personality

Why is it necessary to be "good" from the eyes of society?

This time when every single second is precious for my life, it is not wise to be in depression. But unfortunately, mind does not hear any logic. Every person has to undergo different circumstances in his/her life. To merge all of them in a queue is really difficult. We always said not to regret for our past. But when time comes to compete, aren’t some running ahead for getting known to some information,for getting guidelines, for getting better environment? So, how to beat these unequal competitions? Where someone gets extra opportunities, someone not. Innate talent isn’t in our hand. We should not think about that. But what about giving effort in right way? Some can't choose their goal. Some choose their goal but don't get proper guidelines. Maybe they are giving their best but in wrong way. At last, they are failed. Some know their goals,know right paths to go but don't know how to follow the paths. In this funny world, some get opportunities but don't work with those. Some mourn for opportunities. Some have potential but none to guide them. Some know all guidelines but don't have potential. Why these unequal stuffs are going on in the whole world? And in which path will I go? I know every path is uncertain. But I have no problem with uncertainty. I have problem with regrets. I hardly saw any people who don't regret for their life. In this time of adolescence, to choose own idol is really hard. And also why will I go after mob? Why will i not go? I have none to answer me. When I ask someone, the common answer- "Why can't you think normal things? Can't you follow the normal paths?"

And my normal question - what's normal now anyhow?

Language is really very hard things to learn. In these 17 years after birth, I could not learn neither Bangla nor English well. Even in these days, I struggle with the meaning of every words. English is a foreign language. So, it's natural we will be weak (though we were learning it for 13 years. I mourn for the energy to learn English i gave in the wrong way). But in case of Bangla too, i always stuck in the meanings. Firstly, words have different meaning in different areas. Ok, this problem can be solved in some extent by defining a standard meaning. But later the most struggling factor comes, how the people are taking the words and definitions from their perspective. Maybe I am using a word which I am using from my perspective but whom I am telling, he/she is getting the meaning from his/her perspective. This results in misunderstanding. Oh! How to deal with it! And this modern era has made it more critical because of virtual medias. In face to face talking, we can get some hints by seeing expressions, eye movement and face recognitions. But in social media, chatting platform, the problem become worse. Most of the people don't want to change their prospective. They always think from their way. Yeah, maybe they learnt to see the word from another vision. To cope with this world, i think it's more important to try to understand what is going on and then to react. Then it comes what does 'understanding' mean? I think it means to change own perspective. Understanding an idea means to think the idea from different dimensions, to question the idea from different dimensions and it's a continuous process. I know i will not be effective in my communication overnight. I don't want to do so. Just what I want is people will not react suddenly after hearing or seeing something, it's necessary to change the way to see and then to react. If it is possible, then it's important to try to think what others are saying, why they are saying and how will you take that in. I wish I could understand the world better.