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Daily reminder

The person who “has it worse” deserves to be taken care of, but so do you. Your struggles matter.

This is for all of you who wonder what emotional abuse is. It is not a definitive list but it gives you an idea. Emotional abuse takes many forms, you can still have gone through it even if most of these don’t fit your experience. 

wanna come over sometime? we can traumatic flashbacks and chill?

COMMISSIONS ARE OPEN!!! I’m saving up money so that I can afford my chest removal surgery, so I am now accepting commissions! Prices can be negotiated, especially when adding characters and depending on how intricate the character is you ask me to draw. Message me on tumblr, where we can work out prices and exchange PayPals. I only accept payments upfront! (Also if you could do me a favor and promo this that would be wonderful! Thank you!)

Stop blaming yourself for other people’s shitty doings to you.

They fucked up, not you.

Hey, guys!

I have finally finished my interactive personality disorder diagnostic checklists! Each checklist provides the symptoms one dealing with the specified disorder would be experiencing taken from the DSM-5. these could be a very useful tool for people looking for help with self-diagnoses or better expressing their symptoms. 

Here are the links:

BPD (borderline personality disorder)

HPD (histrionic personality disorder)

NPD (narcissistic personality disorder)

SPD (Schizoid personality disorder)

STPD (schizotypal personality disorder)

DPD (dependent personality disorder)

OCPD (Obsessive-Compulsive personality disorder)

ASPD (antisocial personality disorder)

APD (avoidant personality disorder)

PPD (paranoid personality disorder)

If you guys could reblog this so people who need it can have access to it, I’d really appreciate it!

I wasn’t abused for 20 fucking years so I could be told I am lucky or fascinating or complex. My abuse did not enhance my personality. It fucking destroyed me. I am not ‘inspiration porn’ for you to get off on. I am not public property for you to appropriate and plagiarize so you can feel edgy. You want to be abused so badly? Go find someone to abuse you but never, ever try to take the memories and narratives of victims and mimic them. We do not exist to be gawked at. We do not exist to be statistics in your fucking pamphlets. Fuck off.

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