Susanamode - SKII's Space

Fuck this one hits home.

#SiSoy

Me: *aggressively refreshing my mails and my carefully curated AO3 search page*

Me: come on, AO3. Do your thing. Do the magic. Where are the updates, where is my fix? Will you really make me reread a comfort fic for the millionth time? Don’t think I won’t *shakes fist*

AO3:

Me: *sobs* pretty pls?

this is... kind of sad :/ I'm gonna treat better my villagers :'(

Age of Empires 3 is a game where you get to be a ruler of your own city. You make people, buildings, armies, attack the PC a.i. You know, that kind of game. RTS games. You basically act as an absolute monarch to your people, they don’t have any power whatsoever to escape your grasp. You can put a...

yes, this is. BEST CHAPTER (till now..)

Watching the original Star Trek on Netflix has been the best decision I have made because you get flawless scenes like this

Daily reminder, because this shit is so ingrained in global culture it makes me want to SCREAM, that vaginal sex is NOT SUPPOSED TO BE PAINFUL EVER. It is not supposed to bleed! No, not even when it's your "first time". That's not how it works and WHY WOULD IT BE? The vagina is a very cool dude that does this really cool thing: when sexually aroused, the tissue surrounding the vaginal opening as well as the muscle of the canal expands in width & length and lubricates. YES, EVEN "VIRGINS". You've probably heard something along the lines that "it hurts at first but it gets better" – NOPE. The vagina does not magically start functioning after a penis tears it open.

Painful sex is generally due to (other than ignorant partners):

- Minimal or no sexual arousal

- No additional lubrication (vaginal lubrication is great! it is also not always sufficient)

- Low oestrogen or unbalanced hormones (due to young age, health conditions, HRT, stages of menopause)

- Incompatible partners (yes, penises/strap ons can be TOO BIG, don't just pick up the biggest one you can find. look up how long the average aroused vagina is, seriously, then take into account your own anatomy and the position of your cervix at rest & when your vagina is mostly or fully aroused)

- Congenital conditions or a cervix that hangs lower than average

It is so important for people with vaginas to learn their body before having penetrative sex with a partner. PLEASE EXPLORE AND EDUCATE YOURSELF FIRST. Find what works for you. Do NOT put your health and safety in the hands of some idiot.

P.S. Sometimes it just doesn't work and that's okay. Vaginal sex is NOT the height of human experience. There are dozens of other mutually pleasurable sexual experiences to be had!

Fanart of Kakashi. One of my all time favourites.

me when i find a new otp:

there are no things wrong with this video