“They say every atom in our bodies was once part of a star. Maybe I’m not leaving… maybe I’m coming home”.
The whole self love thing is good and all but some people can’t fathom being loved. They can’t imagine there being anything good about them. So they can’t simply just stop doing unhealthy things, there’s a process.
Stop abusing your boyfriends and yes what you are doing is abuse.
Stop:
Yelling at him in front of his friends
Hitting or slapping him when he does or says something you don’t like
Telling him he doesn’t have a choice when it comes to decisions that involve both of you
Telling him he can’t hang out with friends because you don’t like him
Telling him to not talk to other girls even if they are his friend
Forcing him to spend every moment with you
Belittling him and pointing out all his flaws
Calling him stupid or making fun of him for making a mistake
Threatening to break up with him if he doesn’t do what you want
Being emotionally manipulative and crying until he does what you want
Accusing him of cheating every time he’s not with you
Blow up is phone if he doesn’t text you every five minutes
Telling him you are the must thing that has ever happened to him and no one else will love
Physically attacking him when ever you are mad
Forcing him to have sex despite that fact that he said he didn’t want to
Invading his privacy by going through his phone
Getting mad at him for changing his password and demanding he tell you what it is
If a guy did any of these things to a girl it would be considered abuse but since its the other way around its considered normal. Throughout High school I saw many girl treating their boyfriends like shit. Sometime even physically abusing them in the hallways and no one trying to stop it because its a girl attacking a boy.
Boys: If your girlfriend does anything on this list leave her. It is abuse and you deserve better.
Girls: if you find your self doing anything on this list to your boyfriend you need to knock it off because you are being abusive.
Here have a vine compilation that I made and enjoy I’m not late to the party or anything (update for part two)
Series:
Risk For Reward (Finn Balor); 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15
Stay With Me (Finn Balor); 1, 2
Don’t Speak (Baron Corbin); 1, 2, 3, 4, 5 (Complete)
Contractually Obligated (AJ Styles); 1, 2, 3, 4
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Maroon 5 Song Series;
Hazel Eyes (AJ Styles) 1 of 11
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One Shots:
Animals (Dean Ambrose)
Morning Glory (Kenny Omega)
Honey-Lemon-Mint (Marty Scurll)
Til The End (Finn Balor)
Beefcake (Marty Scurll)
Language Cupcake (Dean Ambrose)
Soup With A Side Of Irish (Finn Balor)
Little Black Dress (Seth Rollins)
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Headcanons:
Baron Corbin;
Sleepy Morning Sex
Bobby Roode;
Exploring New Territory
Corey Graves;
Making Up
Finn Balor;
Off Day
Speaking Gaelic
Cursing In Japanese
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Fuck/Marry/Kill
Finn/AJ/Kenny
The Shield
Finn’s Peronas
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Prompts/Requests/Drabbles
Dean Ambrose;
“You’re strong, baby. You have to be”
Dolph Ziggler;
“Well, you’re coming home with me whether you like it or not.”, “Stop being grumpy. It’s lame.”
Enzo Amore;
“I’m sorry I read your diary”
Finn Balor;
“If I win, you do dishes for a week”
“You had a nightmare, tell me what it was about so I can fix it”
“Come over here and make me”, “The skirt is supposed to be this short”
“Don’t touch me. We’re fighting”
“Don’t apologize if you don’t mean it”
“I lost the baby”, “Don’t die on me– Please”, “I’m going to keep you safe” “I’m dying”, “Whats the matter?”, “Are you cold?”
“Make me”, “Mine”
“I don’t deserve to be loved”
“I can take care of myself just fine”
“Are you hitting on me?”, “Do you like it when I touch you like that?”
“Stop texting me weird stuff so late at night”
“What are you listening to?”, “Can I touch you?”
“I’m going to keep you safe”, “I want to protect you”
“What a pretty sight”
“Let’s have a baby”, “You’d be a great dad”
“Are you high?”
Kenny Omega;
“Come on, baby, up to bed”
“First one to make a noise loses”
“Go back to bed”
Marty Scurll;
“I don’t need you anymore”, “I wish I’d never met you”
Roman Reigns;
“Is that my shirt?”
“I haven’t slept in four days…”
“Stop being so cute”
Seth Rollins;
“Come over here and make me”
“Where did all these puppies come from?”
“You’re one hell of a girl”
“Do you think you can teach me that?”
“Are you drunk?”, “Stop teasing me so much…”
“First one to make a noise loses”
“Was I really that drunk?”
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by Tony Hoagland
If I knew I would be dead by this time next year I believe I would spend the months from now till then writing thank-you notes to strangers and acquaintances, telling them, “You really were a great travel agent,” or “I never got the taste of your kisses out of my mouth.” or “Watching you walk across the room was part of my destination.” It would be the equivalent, I think, of leaving a chocolate wrapped in shiny foil on the pillow of a guest in a hotel– “Hotel of earth, where we resided for some years together,” I start to say, before I realize it is a terrible cliche, and stop, and then go on, forgiving myself in a mere split second because now that I’m dying, I just go forward like water, flowing around obstacles and second thoughts, not getting snagged, just continuing with my long list of thank-yous, which seems to naturally expand to include sunlight and wind, and the aspen trees which gleam and shimmer in the yard as if grateful for being soaked last night by the irrigation system invented by an individual to whom I am quietly grateful. Outside it is autumn, the philosophical season, when cold air sharpens the intellect; the hills are red and copper in their shaggy majesty. The clouds blow overhead like governments and years. It took me a long time to understand the phrase “distant regard,” but I am grateful for it now, and I am grateful for my heart, that turned out to be good, after all; and grateful for my mind, to which, in retrospect, I can see I have never been sufficiently kind.
Hansung:
Mr. Perfect Part 1 Part 2 Part 3 Part 4 Part 5 Part 6 Part 7
Together Forever
Big Hands
Hero
Sammaekjong:
Cuddles
It’s Not My Name
How They Listen
How It Goes Part 1 Part 2
Teeth
Savior
Perfect Bride
Disappear From It All
Free Spirit
Sooho:
Sorry
Reasons Not To
My Boy
Learn
It’s Your Secret
On and Off But Always Mine
Banryu:
Weddings
What I Like
Unromantic?
Bond
Don’t Part 2
Different Look
Danse:
Big Present
Princess? Part 2
Sneaking
True Bone
Yeowool:
Who’s Prettier
Handsome Like Me
Blackmail
Sunwoo:
Deserving
Sometimes we as people have the worst days. Days where we feel like we can’t do anything right. Days where there is no sunshine. When we have those days we feel as though it would be better if all that pain and emotion would just go away. Likely, we won’t find any remedy to the anguish we feel. Life; however, is not the evil we as humans have imagined it to be. When everything is going wrong and nothing feels right that is when life comes in and shows us exactly what we need to see. No matter what that would be life will always come in to show us the best there is for us. We just have to wait for the moment that the clouds move and the sun shines through.
I have always had a habit of apologizing for the stupidest things, but today the thing is not stupid. I want to be better about posting stuff on here so that more people will be touch by my positivity, but I am not good at keeping up with things. So, I need to apologize from the bottom of my heart for not being good at making sure to post. I will try to do better and try to post something everyday. I know that a lot of people dont want positivity but I think it is impossible to get through life without it. So please forgive me for not sharing my positivity as often as I should and I promise to do better!! Let's all be better and positively love better!
I hope you have a great day and remember it is never a bad day just bad moments! 😊
If you need advice you can always count on me to try to help. I love helping people so come to me. Ask Me Anything!
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