I Wish My Insurance Covered This... One Could Even Say I'm Yearni—

It's okay to grieve for someone you hated, even if you're glad they're gone. It's okay to miss someone you hoped would leave your life for good when they're finally gone forever. It's okay to miss those good moments, especially if they're so small in a sea of so many bad memories. And, hey, it's okay if you're grieving for someone that they never got to become it's okay it's okay trust me it's okay

It will never not hurt to hear your close friends talk about men like they're the scum of the earth, like they know every man. And when you give them the look, like "what about me" they say "oh of course I didn't mean you". Of course they didn't.

Idk what trans man needs to hear this but you're NOT evil or disgusting for being a man. You do NOT have to suffer for the sins of the patriarchy committed by cis dudes. Being a man doesn't invalidate the misogyny you experienced growing up or experience now. Being a man doesn't mean you deserve to be isolated. Being a man doesn't mean you're inherently predatory or scary. You didn't "choose" this, and finding your true self is NOT "betraying the community" because you happen to be a man and/or masculine rather than a woman and/or feminine. You ARE allowed to be upset when people "affirm" your gender by malgendering you.

You DO deserve a community that uplifts you. You DO deserve to experience trans joy. You DO deserve to have your voices heard and your struggles recognized. Wanting the bare minimum of solidarity is NOT "making everything about trans men".

It's yearning season again...time to yearn

From what I've seen on tumblr, queer longing and queer belonging are two sides of the same coin and some people just flip it a lot more than others and sometimes it's a weighted coin so it's not a 50/50 chance that it's gonna land on either one but of course sometimes the coin lands right in the middle does that make sense??

reblog if people r allowed to send u asks as if theyre ur friend. wanna tell me how ur day went? do it!!! ask me for advice? sure! ask a personal question? go right on ahead!

Welcome to the bog, fiends ₊˚⊹⋆·. ݁ 𖥔 ݁ ˖๋ ࣭ ⭑₊

My name is Toast, but I also answer to Justan. I'm one of those he/him transgenders and if there's one thing about me it's

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♡ I love all sorts of bl: my favorite one is Kinnporsche and it has been for a while

ᝰ I'm super passionate about playing my alto sax David; I love him very much

♪ big fan of music in general but my favorite genre is 90's rock and my favorite bands are Nirvana, Weezer, the Cranberries, Sebadoh, and Pavement + plus not bands but I love Jonathan Coulton and David Bowie's music sm (the latter of course is my saxophone's namesake)

☀︎ I mess with soulsborne games, especially ds1, ds3, and bloodborne even though I'm not good at any of them

𓅓 I'm learning German currently aber I only know ein bisschen iykwim but I'd love to have someone to talk to in German and appropriate messages from anyone are always welcome

𓂃✍︎ I love reading and writing and I pretty much exclusively write filthy filthy nasty dirty homoerotic fanfiction for my otps Vegaspete from Kinnporsche and Narumitsu from Ace Attorney (my ao3 is Toasty_boy)

All people except bigots of any kind are welcome to interact . ݁₊ ⊹ . ݁˖ . ݁₊˚⊹

I just wanna see the fags kiss already wth

What if he's afraid of the dark. What then

i looooove being alone at home until it gets dark and I realize I forgot to leave any of the lights on down stairs . like what if there’s a guy down there.