I'm Not Aro But Reblogging Just Because I Love Frogs

this is kind of ramble-y and talks about being against fae/faer pronouns!!! this has been a warning lmao

i love neopronouns, but fae/faer pronouns are just,,,,, yikes

ive seen multiple people talk about it and after seeing another post about it today i decided fuck it im gonna log onto my discourse account and make a post about it

nyways, the fae are NOT to be fucked with. theyre a huge symbol to celtic cultures and and reglions like wicca. theyre practically gods, and a solid portion of the time theyre not the cutsy fairies you would see in movies. as someone who has had to deal with the fae, theyre not the kind of being you should like,,,, make pronouns out of. you cant give them your name, you cant take gifts from them, you cant take food from them, if you so accept something from them you cant say thank you, you cant stand in faerie rings, and you cant be rude to them. doing any of that will fuck you up. but people decided to use pronouns that directly refer to the fae.

i saw it described in a post as using something like jesus/jesusself. like people (usually) dont do that because its a huge religious symbol and he's respected by those who believe in him

i hate to be the person thats like 'uwu these pronouns make people uncomfy you need alternatives' because usually thats because like,,, 'i dont like neopronouns let me use they/them',,, but i strongy reccomend something people find another pronoun so people who respect the fae can talk to/about you. if u like the sound of fae/faer thats 100% valid!!! and i completely understand that they sound really cool!!! some similar pronouns that dont directly refer to the fae would be ae/aer and vae/vaer, and at least letting people who believe in the fae who use one of those alternatives would be very nice.

its not the same as like 'neopronouns make me uncomfy because im a dumbass, let me use he/she/they',,, its 'you are actively appropriating my religion/culture, do you have an alternative for me to use'

remember to get some food!! drink some water while ur at it!! and dont forget to take your meds! you are beautiful and you will get through this.

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Sad but true.

rb to also wish all arogenders a very pleasant evening

Even on days when I feel cis I don't like she/her pronouns and that is largely due to me never feeling completely like a girl. The most I get to that is a demigirl.

I literally go by every pronoun (yes, even neopronouns since those are my favorite and they are fucking valid) except she/her which is unfortunately what everyone I'm not out to calls me 😃

Also pronouns aren't attached to gender as they are literally just words and gender is a fucking social construct anyway.

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i'm the exact opposite, i get so carried away i don't drink for hours.

Anyone else drink water while they daydream? Like as well as pacing or playing with a pen or something, I take a sip of water every minute or something, and then I end up drinking about 3 or 4 litres a day without realising.

If I'm the only one, I will not be suprised.

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no one is allowed to not see this

police literally dragged disabled protestors out of the capitol when they were doing a sit-in for healthcare and teargassed + shot blm protestors marching for human rights but try to deescalate and take selfies w armed insurrectionists and people still want to act like the police don’t exist specifically to enforce oppressive systems