Sad But True.

i go by them fuck yeah

Reblog in support of they/them pronouns!

i'm the exact opposite, i get so carried away i don't drink for hours.

Anyone else drink water while they daydream? Like as well as pacing or playing with a pen or something, I take a sip of water every minute or something, and then I end up drinking about 3 or 4 litres a day without realising.

If I'm the only one, I will not be suprised.

anyway, the idea of “the one” is so innacurate and outdated. there are literally so many people that you could be compatible and share a really strong emotional connection and healthy relationship with. like if you think about it... even in platonic terms, friendship. how many best friends have you had throughout your life? your childhood best friend? high school best friend? college best friend? these were all people you were very in tune with emotionally and shared a meaningful relationship with. did they not understand you? did they not see you for who you were? did they not love you unconditionally? and you did the same. in a world w 8 billion people, one person was not the end all be all. remember that if a relationship dissolved it was for a reason; it wasn’t meant for you. there are plenty of people with whom you can form bonds with. who are willing to meet you where you are, and do what is necessary to earn a place in your life through consistent effort and actions. the “one” doesn’t exist, and they’re not out there for you to find.

I'm going to spam memes

“Why would anyone without dysphoria even want to transition?”

…Because humans are complex animals who are motivated by things other than avoiding pain?

Can we please stop with the “being bi is liking all women and three men” stereotypes? You guys try so hard to emphasize that bisexuality isn’t JUST 50/50 but create posts that are just as harmful. As a bisexual who prefers guys, seeing posts like that makes me doubt my sexuality and sends me down another loop of “what if I’m straight and I’m faking it for attention”. Altough I usually come back to bi, the period of questioning because of an instagram post is really stressful for me, and I’m sure I’m not the only one who feels like this.

Don't exclude ANY a-spec/aro-spec identity otherwise I'll eat you. [Heteromantics are queer as well and you can fight me exclusionists.)

don’t make me tap the sign…

aphobe: asexuals and aromantics aren’t oppressed asexuals and aromantics: yes, they actually are! Here’s some peer-reviewed, duplicated, factual studies about our obscene suicide rates, how we’re viewed negatively by society as a whole and by other sexual minorities, how over 1/10th of us have been through conversion therapy, how people won’t rent to us, how we’re murdered by our significant others and how, yes, anti-queer oppression effects us just as much as the next person. please stop saying things like this, because it sets a dangerous precedent that our oft-deadly oppression is something to be mocked and laughed at aphobe: 

rb if you support heteromantic asexuals and heterosexual aromantics!

Exclusionist Culture Is...

claiming that ONLY “cishet” aces aren’t LGBT, but then getting pissy when gay and trans aces so much as even MENTION the concept of asexuality or their ace identity while in an LGBT+ space

- Submitted by Anon