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this and when the hurt wasn't intended and wasn't their fault
Wanting to be comforted by the person who hurt you is a different type of pain..
having anxious attachment styles SUCKS especially with long distance relationships bc yeah we’ve only been talking/dating for 2 months but you called me 3 days in a row bc last week on your way home from work and you message me consistently but i’ve only met you once or twice and now i feel ridiculous for missing you and feeling unmotivated to do anything now that it’s over
How do you deal with tragic events? I took years to fully establish in my mind that my best friend had died, I still struggle to believe both my grandmothers are gone, and now our oldest cat looks to be dying, since something has gone wrong with his hips or leg or spine.
I had to hear my loving sister, sweet and strong thing that she is, break down sobbing because this is probably the end for him.
I'm mad he's hurt, upset he's in pain, upset he's likely going to die, and all I can really do is sit here and fail to express any of this beyond the text side.
How do I deal with emotions that I can't really express outwardly? I want to express them, I can feel them, but I can't seem to actually do it.