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I don’t know what you mean by sexualized, I don’t see how she is sexualized?

I suggest everyone takes a look at her tik tok

I love the way she does not bullshit or cut corners when it comes to talking about issues in the trans community

What do y’all think?

Seeing clips of the Lily Phillips interview was truly heart breaking and only reinforces the fact that sex work especially prostitution will never be liberating and only further damages a woman’s mental health and body

For context for anyone who doesn’t know

Lily Phillips was originally only an only fans star but recently slept with 100 men in one go, for free, and filmed it.

In the interview towards the end you see her begin to cry, dissociate, and not even be able to describe how she feels

One thing that really stuck out to me is that she says she felt bad for not being able to fully please all the men and that made it all click for me that she did all of this to feel male validation and got more than what she bargained for.

To punish herself and “put”herself through such an intense trauma makes me feel like the people in her life took advantage of her vulnerability and her wanting to please and exploited it

A tale as old as time

I Can’t stand the people saying that she asked for it or that it’s her fault because she set it up when it’s very obvious she is not in the correct headspace to do things like that, no one is, I really see things like this as a form of self harm and punishment

I really hope she is able to get the help she needs and is able to safely leave the sex industry(slavery)

Except it isn’t at the expense of others

A women’s life is more valuable than a fetus who has a possibility of life

The woman is alive not the fetus

In all of your scenarios where a woman would want/need an abortion it would involve consensual sex completely ignoring rape victims and little girls

Sometimes abortion is the answer

Sure maybe doctors don’t know enough about the female body to provide an alternative for abortion, but that is the only thing that is available as of right now that could help woman and girls while health advances are being made

Unpopular opinion: "Abortions are a lifesaving medical procedure" = "We don't know anything about the female body and we refuse to learn, so we sold women this procedure that kills their young and we packaged it all pretty to convince women that it's empowering. But don't point that out or think for yourself about it."

1. She said she knew SOME women with pcos not all the women in the world with pcos nor did she say that all women felt the need to shave ect

2. It is just a fact that someone needs to put effort into their transition to got into the societal standard. You cannot look at those two people and say they are at the dance point of their transition

I genuinely don’t understand the hate the trans community gets, I know there are bad people in that community but that’s just the way the world is, there are bad people everywhere

It’s weird to me seeing how in places like Thailand or in my culture trans women are seen as two spirited, not women but not men either, or are seen as a different kind of women.

I Don’t really understand the hate because I come from a culture where it is accepted

I suggest everyone takes a look at her tik tok

I love the way she does not bullshit or cut corners when it comes to talking about issues in the trans community

What do y’all think?

I looove “all men until proven otherwise” I definitely agree with this statement as I myself am very uncomfortable around men and enter a fight or flight mentality when I am near them, thanks for having that discussion with me 🫶

My take on “radical feminism” that nobody asked for

I myself consider myself leaning very into radical feminism but I see that terf ideologies seem to get mixed in more often than not (wanna make it clear I support trans rights)

1. A lot of rad fems think that all heterosexual sex is rape which is such an insane thing to do and implies that women do not have the power or capacity to consent to heterosexual sex

2. I do agree that we as woman will never find liberation through sex or sex work however rad fems do not realize that a lot of women fall into sex work and can not simply quit, I do not support the sex work industry but I support sex workers

3. To me it seems a lot of white women have overshadowed the movement and only mention woc when it’s used as an aha! moment against men and not with the intention of actually helping

4. Extreme transphobia, the main idea is that trans women rape women’s body’s and appropriating the body, my conflict with this is women are not their bodies and trans women have always felt like women since birth is the biological aspect that’s the problem

5. A lot of rad fems think a women choosing a certain lifestyle or religion is oppressive which again perpetuates the idea that women can not make a choice without a man or patriarchal idea being involved or a sense of brain washing

I think a lot of rad fems have lost sense of the movement and more times than often make themselves appear victim like and in a constant state of martyrdom, yes we women have suffered and continue to suffer and be oppressed but we can not let this weight break us down and make us point fingers at people (trans women and women who choose religion or certain life styles) who are not the root cause of our suffering

Please let me know your thoughts

I’m not gonna bother to clear up some of the stances you said I support because I already did,

I’m not chronically online I was curious about the movement and wanted to know what it’s beliefs entail but everyone has had given me a slightly different answer than the last person, I’m very young and has never heard of radical feminism before this week

which is crazy because I like the purpose of the movement but a lot of the community is simply insane with no common sense on how to communicate and have a reasonable conversation

In my community feminism is still very controversial and growing up no talk like that was allowed (I’ve also stated this but I grew up in a cult) I’ve grown up sheltered and told that feminism was demonic and I’m trying to repair the damage that was done during that time

The people in this community can’t even agree on its core values as even women from the beginning of the movement have different answers as to what a radical feminist is

Yes I was uneducated on the subject ( like I said I never even knew what radical feminism was until this week ) and I stated that multiple time’s but people are aggressive and so blinded by hate they ignore what I said

I don’t need labels to do activism because I have already done activism and nothing takes that away just because you don’t agree with what I said, again I said I’m not a radical feminist so you saying I’m not literally doesn’t mean anything, I’m not worried about labels the people in this community are

Sure I was uneducated but not because of my own ignorance it’s because of the same patriarchy you hate, again this community prides itself on liberating women but does not help women who want to understand it or learn about it

My take on “radical feminism” that nobody asked for

I myself consider myself leaning very into radical feminism but I see that terf ideologies seem to get mixed in more often than not (wanna make it clear I support trans rights)

1. A lot of rad fems think that all heterosexual sex is rape which is such an insane thing to do and implies that women do not have the power or capacity to consent to heterosexual sex

2. I do agree that we as woman will never find liberation through sex or sex work however rad fems do not realize that a lot of women fall into sex work and can not simply quit, I do not support the sex work industry but I support sex workers

3. To me it seems a lot of white women have overshadowed the movement and only mention woc when it’s used as an aha! moment against men and not with the intention of actually helping

4. Extreme transphobia, the main idea is that trans women rape women’s body’s and appropriating the body, my conflict with this is women are not their bodies and trans women have always felt like women since birth is the biological aspect that’s the problem

5. A lot of rad fems think a women choosing a certain lifestyle or religion is oppressive which again perpetuates the idea that women can not make a choice without a man or patriarchal idea being involved or a sense of brain washing

I think a lot of rad fems have lost sense of the movement and more times than often make themselves appear victim like and in a constant state of martyrdom, yes we women have suffered and continue to suffer and be oppressed but we can not let this weight break us down and make us point fingers at people (trans women and women who choose religion or certain life styles) who are not the root cause of our suffering

Please let me know your thoughts

Edit

⭐️Some people seem to be confused about this but i was born a woman and will always be a woman, it’s so crazy how other women will try to degrade me as if they were men for disagreeing with them or seeing things differently, i do not like liberal feminism and i never have, and i do not like to label my belief system and prefer to make a more individual standpoint than community⭐️

Another edit lol

⭐️I have never claimed to be a rad fem or that I know everything about rad feminism because I don’t, and that was the purpose of this post, it’s really crazy how people will say they want to educate and liberate women while yelling and degrading me for simply not agreeing with them and proceed to do the same things men do, you are no better than a man, I’ve come to realize that this community strayed from its original purpose and roots and has been taken over by people who want to put in their own two cents and opinion, this community or at least a good portion of it seems like a very miserable community, I have meet a lot of rad fems who have common sense and realize that hate will get them nowhere and being rude to me won’t achieve anything, on the other hand majority of rad fems I’ve meet have misconstrued the movement from what I’ve read and put feelings over facts, I won’t interact to hate and only to genuine discussions ⭐️

I really appreciate your input thank you for interacting 🫶

1) I figured it was a very small percentage but I still wanted to know if it was still a belief in the community

2) thank you for clearing that up and I complete agree with what you said

3) I’m a aiming you mean that people don’t look at their own communities flaws when it comes to issues like this and I completely agree

4) I’ve actually mostly heard a and b in this community, I can understand saying trans men and women need their own movement I just don’t understand a lot of the hate towards them in the community , I’ve heard a lot of people say it’s because they think being a woman is a costume which I don’t believe is true and I don’t believe that majority of trans women think of womanhood that way

5) I was actually raised in a cult lol and had major gender roles forced and beliefs forced on me , I don’t think they are ani feminist I have always thought that feminism gave us the choice to things like wanting be a house wife and wanting a family or being childless and pursuing a career, it’s like people who say that wearing hijabs is oppressive even if the women may not have been raised in a country where Islam or modesty is prevalent. I 100 percent agree that our upbringing and the things that have been implanted into our minds and young girls stays with us forever and influences our decisions when it comes to lifestyle and belief

I’m really glad we can have this discussion, again thank you for responding 🫶

My take on “radical feminism” that nobody asked for

I myself consider myself leaning very into radical feminism but I see that terf ideologies seem to get mixed in more often than not (wanna make it clear I support trans rights)

1. A lot of rad fems think that all heterosexual sex is rape which is such an insane thing to do and implies that women do not have the power or capacity to consent to heterosexual sex

2. I do agree that we as woman will never find liberation through sex or sex work however rad fems do not realize that a lot of women fall into sex work and can not simply quit, I do not support the sex work industry but I support sex workers

3. To me it seems a lot of white women have overshadowed the movement and only mention woc when it’s used as an aha! moment against men and not with the intention of actually helping

4. Extreme transphobia, the main idea is that trans women rape women’s body’s and appropriating the body, my conflict with this is women are not their bodies and trans women have always felt like women since birth is the biological aspect that’s the problem

5. A lot of rad fems think a women choosing a certain lifestyle or religion is oppressive which again perpetuates the idea that women can not make a choice without a man or patriarchal idea being involved or a sense of brain washing

I think a lot of rad fems have lost sense of the movement and more times than often make themselves appear victim like and in a constant state of martyrdom, yes we women have suffered and continue to suffer and be oppressed but we can not let this weight break us down and make us point fingers at people (trans women and women who choose religion or certain life styles) who are not the root cause of our suffering

Please let me know your thoughts

I’m actually Native American and North African ! Homosexuality is accepted in Native American culture however not in many nations in North Africa, it’s still illegal and homosexuality is seen as something from the devil and evil

My take on “radical feminism” that nobody asked for

I myself consider myself leaning very into radical feminism but I see that terf ideologies seem to get mixed in more often than not (wanna make it clear I support trans rights)

1. A lot of rad fems think that all heterosexual sex is rape which is such an insane thing to do and implies that women do not have the power or capacity to consent to heterosexual sex

2. I do agree that we as woman will never find liberation through sex or sex work however rad fems do not realize that a lot of women fall into sex work and can not simply quit, I do not support the sex work industry but I support sex workers

3. To me it seems a lot of white women have overshadowed the movement and only mention woc when it’s used as an aha! moment against men and not with the intention of actually helping

4. Extreme transphobia, the main idea is that trans women rape women’s body’s and appropriating the body, my conflict with this is women are not their bodies and trans women have always felt like women since birth is the biological aspect that’s the problem

5. A lot of rad fems think a women choosing a certain lifestyle or religion is oppressive which again perpetuates the idea that women can not make a choice without a man or patriarchal idea being involved or a sense of brain washing

I think a lot of rad fems have lost sense of the movement and more times than often make themselves appear victim like and in a constant state of martyrdom, yes we women have suffered and continue to suffer and be oppressed but we can not let this weight break us down and make us point fingers at people (trans women and women who choose religion or certain life styles) who are not the root cause of our suffering

Please let me know your thoughts

The twinkification of soap hurts my soul