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“Sadly, there is a certain necessity, a certain self-protection in silence. Statistically, bisexual women are nearly twice as likely to experience domestic violence… The trope of heterosexual men asking for three ones with their bisexual partners is an eye roll, an annoyance, but this kind of thinking, this equating bisexuality with complete sexual openness and desire to please men, possibly so they won’t leave you, can be much more serious.”

- Annie Dobson, The Bi-ble: New Testimonials, Further original narratives and essays about bisexuality

“When you do take the trouble to point out that you are, in fact, bisexual - that no matter whether you are with a man or a woman you will always have the potential to go either way - people look at you with scepticism, confusion, disbelief, or perhaps even envy. Their faces say this: you’re lying to yourself, it’s just a phase, you don’t know what you want, you’re letting the side down, you’re greedy, you don’t exist. But you do exist. Here you are.”

- Chitra Ramaswamy, The Bi-ble: an anthology of personal essays and narratives about bisexuality

“Most of our lives are played out on the middle ground. To recognize this doesn’t mean that it is better or worse. This space in between gives us valuable information and, when recognized in relation to the absolute extremes, it helps communicate our various realities to each other. As those of us who don’t believe in the walls and fences join forces and speak out about our lives, the middle ground reminds everyone that we are part of the whole. And yes, this whole contains important extremes, but it is the vast expense of gray areas where most of us live.”

- Loraine Hutchins and Lani Ka’ahumanu, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out

I really, really want to ... take my time.

I want to strip him nude, and lay across his legs, and fondle him.

Stroke, squeeze, tease ... I want to take in the sight, sound, and smell of him as he becomes steadily more aroused. I want to praise, encourage, and coax.

Kiss the tender tip of his cock when it seeps precum. Press my lips on the underside of his cock with it twitches and rub my swollen lips over it, wetting it with my saliva until he's shiny. Lick the tip of his cock slowly, teasingly in circles until his legs buck underneath me. Palm his balls tenderly, and wet them with my tongue.

I want to make it last, because I crave it. I want to savor each sensation. And when his sweet whines and moans turn to sincere entreaty-

Please. Please stroke it. Suck. Let me come, please. Make me come-

When I can feel his need in my bones, I'll straddle his face amd show him what the game has done to me.

Then, maybe I might fulfill his wish. Or maybe, I might take him out to lunch, still half-hard and needy.

“While my feelings of sexual attraction toward a man may or may not occur concurrently with feelings of attraction for a woman, I recognize that those sexual and emotional feelings don’t belong to different “selves” (a homosexual self and a heterosexual self) but rather to my one, evolving self.”

- Ann Fox, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out

“I am married and monogamous. Not much of a bisexual you say. Yet my bisexuality influences my perception and my decisions. More than having sexual relations with both genders, bisexuality is a mind frame, a reference point from which to view the world. Being bisexual has more to do with potential than actuality.”

- Amanda Yoshizaki, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out

“Up against criticism from conservatives and fundamentalists that the gay lifestyle, if not a sickness, was at least a sin and was wilfully “chosen,” gay strategists instead asserted that they were “born that way” and could not change even if they wanted to. It thus became popular, as well as politically expedient, to argue and assume that people are either one or the other. Related to this, an important question is whether one can demand rights for a “choice.” As long as sexuality is seen as fixed at birth or soon after, gay legal theorists who base their gay civil rights arguments on monosexual assumptions about sexual orientation can argue that gays should be a protected class and deserve civil rights on that basis. No one is currently arguing in the courts that same-sex love can also be a choice and, like religion, also deserves defence on that ground.”

- Loraine Hutchins, Bisexuality: The Psychology and Politics of an Invisibly Minority