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Mommy's 25 Diaper Rules
1) Baby is now 2 years old from here on.
2) Diapers are to be worn anytime a baby would normally have a diaper on until mommy decides otherwise. Diapers will be used for everything restroom related at home and in public.
2a) If baby consistantly holds the need to wet or mess while in public until returning home it might become a requirement that baby either takes laxatives each morning or an enema before going out to promote becoming comfortable using his diapers as needed and to become accustomed to the wet and/or messy feeling while out and about.
3) You are not allowed to remove or adjust your diaper for any reason.
4) Only mommy or an approved babysitter can change your diaper. Regular checks will be performed anytime and anywhere. Mommy will try to be discrete if possible, but checks will be performed regularly and you must allow for your diaper to be inspected immediately when requested to do so. Diaper checks and changes are performed at mommy's convenience and they cannot be prevented by baby for any reason.
5) When baby messes his diaper at home it is required that a squatting position be maintained as to serve an a visable non-verbal warning to mommy or babysitter that a diaper change will be needed soon.
6) You absolutely cannot enter a restroom without mommy being with you.
7) Using a potty is now forbidden until otherwise stated.
8) Baby is forbidden from touching any private parts underneath or through a diaper.
9) You are now mommy's little baby and any sexual contact with mommy is not alloud while wearing your diapers.
10) Baby may only wear a shirt and diaper while at home in order to allow for mommy to easily see when a change is needed. Anything covering your diaper is forbidden unless permission is given by mommy.
Note: No covering the diaper at home is one of the most important rules in making diapers a longterm or even permanent addition to your littles life. Over time they will become accustomed to seeing themselves in a diaper and not thinking about it. Your little will start to become fine with dressing for comfort and not to hide anything. After several weeks they will start to be fine with dressing more comfortable in public and may eventually not even try to hide their diaper anymore since it's not even a second thought to them.
10a) In public jeans or sweatpants will usually be alloud. Pants will adequately cover the baby's diaper. However, jeans and sweatpants worn out will not be so big that the diaper buldge, swelling from usage and diaper outlines are not visable preventing easy checks.
10b) Gym and work out clothing will generally be a little tighter fitting than jeans and sweatpants.
10c) When having to attend class or work a onesie will be permitted wear as to assist in holding any wet or messy diaper sags in place until baby can return home and can be appropriately changed by an approved adult.
10d) If mommy or an approved babysitter places your pacifier/binky in your mouth at anytime it must remain in place until removed by the caregiver. You may not talk or babble during pacifier time.
11) While at home any drinks will be given in a bottle or sippy cup with a lid. Absolutely no glass cups or anything without a lid can be used by baby.
12) 3 days a week will consist of only baby food being offered. Usually this will be Monday, Wednesday and Saturday.
13) Baby will not use adult language or big words for any reason. Only a babyish babble, baby appropriate sign language, non-verbal signals, crying or pointing with the occasional small/age appropriate word can be used when trying to communicate all wants and needs with mommy or a supervising adult.
14) Mommy will pick out your outfits anytime it is necessary to go out in public and will assist you in getting dressed. Selected outfits must be worn without complaints.
15) All hair must be removed from the diapered area and must be maintained smooth.
16) A diaper must be immediately put back on as soon as bathtime is finished. Mommy will supervise each bath time for baby's safety.
17) You will be respectful to all adults and do as you are told.
18) You cannot hide, lie or be ashamed of your diapers since they are necessary- be proud. If asked if you are wearing a diaper by any adult you must respond correctly.
19) Baby cannot be left at home alone. An adult such as a babysitter will always be present if mommy is not available.
20) When crossing any street baby must hold mommy's or babysitters hand.
21) Big boy underwear must be put in storage until further notice and diapers will be stored in their place. Mommy will select any color or style of diapers she wishes and will keep a home supply maintained.
22) Bedtime is 10:30pm sharp, unless stated otherwise.
23) Mommy's or a supervising adults rules will be followed at all times.
24) Failure to follow the required rules will result in a punishment ranging from extra time between diaper changes, an enema or up to an indefinite amount of time wearing diapers 24/7 being required.
25) Mommy or any supervising adult/babysitter reserves the right to add, change or remove any rule at anytime as they desire.
Photo source: ABdreams
Diapers aren't for everyone. If every adult in the world tried wearing a diaper tomorrow, there would surely be a large number of people who conclude "nope - these don't do anything for me". And that's okay. But I am convinced that - if more people were able to overcome the stigma of wearing adult diapers and try them once - a LOT of people would decide that diapers are actually the bee's knees! So here are 8 reasons why diapers are actually really awesome and worth trying out at least once in your life.
8. You Might Need Them Someday
Diapers aren't just for babies. Plenty of adults develop incontinence later in life - either due to injury, illness, or old age - and rely on diapers. Maybe you'll be one of those, maybe you won't. But if you do, then overcoming the stigma of wearing diapers now would make the transition later in life easier on you.
7. Diapers Are Kink-Friendly
Are you kinky in the bedroom? Diapers pair up quite nicely with other kinks and fetishes, including (but not limited to) Dom/sub roleplay, obedience and discipline, humiliation, rubber, pup play, watersports (duh), and bondage. Also, since diapers are on the fringe of the fetish world, most ABDLs are fairly open-minded and non-judgmental about most other kinks and fetishes.
6. Taboo Excitement
Who doesn't love being a little naughty once in a while? Because diapers are so taboo, it can be quite exciting and adventurous to defy social norms and wear them. Learning what you can get away with is quite the thrilling experience. (Pro Tip: You'll be paranoid at first that everyone knows you're wearing a diaper. But you'll eventually learn that diapers aren't nearly as noticeable as you might think.) Imagine how mischievous you'll feel in the company of friends, family, or coworkers, soaking your diaper while everyone around you is none the wiser!
5. Vulnerability and Intimacy
Because diapers are taboo, wearing them can make you feel vulnerable. What if you're exposed? What if someone makes fun of you? How will you keep it a secret? These might not seem like positive things, but vulnerability often translates into intimacy. If your partner knows you wear diapers and even supports you and participates in the fetish with you, well... let's just say that few moments match the intimacy of allowing another person to change your diaper.
4. Feeling Protected
Ironically, what can make you feel vulnerable can also make you feel protected. There aren't many things in life with that sort of duality. But being swaddled in a diaper can make you feel secure, comforted, and cared for.
3. A Little Regression Never Hurt Anyone
Not all, but many ABDLs incorporate diapers as a part of age regression roleplay. It can be fun once in a while to think back to fond memories of your childhood. Some even argue that it's good for mental health. And diapers can help facilitate transporting you back in time.
2. They're Ridiculously Convenient
Whatever you think of diapers, I think everyone can agree that it's super annoying to have to drop what you're doing to go to the bathroom. Particularly whenever you're engaged in long duration activities. Pausing a movie or a tv show or a video game - just when things are getting exciting - because you have to go. Having to constantly pull over for pit stops during a road trip. Waking up in the middle of the night and interrupting your sleep to go to the bathroom. Suppose you're sick or injured and need to stay in bed to recover? Wanting to avoid long lines (or gross port-a-pottys) at concerts and sporting events. I could go on and on and on - the list is practically endless.
1. They Feel Awesome
Not convinced by any other reason so far? If you ask me, there's only one reason anyone needs to give diapers a try, and that is - they feel amazing to wear. They're not like ordinary, boring underwear. Diapers are soft, thick, snug, warm, and squishy. (A soaked diaper is even softer, thicker, warmer, and squishier.) And the plastic! To hell with reusable cloth diapers or cloth-backed disposable diapers! Disposable plastic diapers are the best, because that plastic is smooth like satin and sensual to the touch.
Two things I’ll highlight straight away are:
1. Most people who like to wear or be forced to wear diapers have a desire to incorporate other adult baby elements. The base level varies by person but I’ve noticed that most people trend towards being more AB over time.
2. Lots of partners of ABDL’s struggle with the AB part more than the diaper part. Exactly why is hard to know but I feel most commonly it’s to do with it making it feel too close to being a real baby. They struggle to separate Adult Baby from Baby in their minds.
So how do you reconcile this difference if your ABDL partner wants to incorporate more babyish elements and you as their partner struggle most with those elements.
Before I give some options I want to first get you to remember one of the key elements of successful diaper discipline, it has to be more than they want and it sometimes shouldn’t be fun for them.
So if they want a bit of babying and you don’t like that part how can you give them more than they want to fulfil the control element they crave?
Babying can go from themed diapers to having a full nursery room in your home. At a minimum even if you don’t like babying elements I think you do have to embrace ABDL diapers, ABDL onesies and some sort of diaper changing area. I would then highly recommend you experiment (with an open mind) with pacifiers and bottles before progressing onto more babyish activities.
However if their babyish diapers, onesies and the changing mat at the end of your bed are your limit what can you do…
I feel the answer is to compensate for not fulfilling this element of their desire with stricter diaper rules and also adding in other elements of control.
So I’d seriously consider returning them to diapers full time with the diaper discipline focus them being treated as both bladder and bowel incontinent.
Keep exceptions to a minimum and add humiliation elements without exposing them or others. Tease them about being messy, don’t let them change straight away and force them to use their diapers using laxatives and suppositories.
Also to further play to the control aspect, experiment by combining diapers with chastity, bondage or spankings.
Chastity goes great with diapers and can also be good for male partners in preventing post-orgasm lows.
Bondage makes for great punishments especially when combined with laxatives. You can also use a low level on bondage on a daily basis by using a locking diaper cover or securing your partner to their work desk at home.
Spanking is something a lot of people enjoy and can be used on a maintenance basis (they’ve done nothing specific wrong) or as a punishment for an action.
Finally checking and changing them doesn’t have to be a babyish activity. You can adopt the persona of them being incontinent and you’re caring for them, or if you have a more dom streak this is a way you’re directly controlling them. But them losing the ability to change themselves is a very strong tool you should use.
I wonder if anyone at work knows that i wear or hears the crinkle when i move around. I would like to know if you wear diapers to work? I would love to hear back from my followers.
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