SOMEBODY TELL ME THIS IS A JOKE OR IM GONNA FUCKING SPAZZ

It fucking pisses me off that people keep trying to paint Eddie as abusive, even though he’s proven over and over again that, no matter how angry he gets, he would never actually hurt anyone. Even at the peak of his grief — completely furious — he still held back his emotions. And still, people label him as abusive, while other characters have acted out and didn’t get nearly the same backlash.

No one called Bobby abusive when he shoved Buck.

No one called Buck abusive when he sprained Eddie's ankle.

So why is it different when Eddie puts a hand on his shoulder and points at him? Why are those considered less intense than a hand on the shoulder and a finger?

And no — even though he was grieving, I don’t think Eddie was right to take it out on Buck like that. He doesn’t think so either. That’s why later he says, “I heard some dick (he) was pissing you off.” He knows he crossed a line with Buck.

In my opinion, the problem at that moment was that Eddie needed Buck — he needed them to share their grief, to support each other. But Buck was so focused on trying to “fix things” that he didn’t realize grief isn’t something you fix — it’s something you feel. And that frustrated Eddie because all he really wanted was to be with his partner. (It honestly reminded me of when the same thing happened with Hen and Karen.)

Every single fight they had has come down to a lack of communication, a lack of expressing their feelings — and the explosion that follows.

Were Eddie actions okay? In my opinion, no. But it doesn't mean he's abusive. He’s grieving. Just like Buck. Just like everyone else. People grieve in different ways.

Honestly, if you consider him abusive while thinking other characters’ actions were justifiable, then I have news for you — it’s kinda clear why you think that.

And I can’t deal with people using such a serious issue just because of a ship war.

need a fic where buddie keep starting sitcoms, immediately clocking two characters and going 'omg theyre so us' and the characters just. keep getting together. like no matter what they watch.

in the immortal words of mr. oliver stark: that was super gay

idea by @sharpbutsoft

happy bobby is alive day!!!!!

Oh Bobby isn't in 8x17? Don't worry guys he's just gardening at Athena's house😌

He's not in 8x18? Guys relax, he went skying with Charlie!! 😌

Season nine without Bobby?? Guyyyys he's went to see Michael in Florida!! ✨

hi I’m thotguzman and my toxic trait is associating buck and eddie to every gracie abrams song

They’re hiding Eddie in the stills like he’s the one that fake died 😭😭

what the last two days have felt like:

God when you think your day can't get any fucking worse after the baker fucks up the gender reveal cake and then your wife who just got almost serial killed is on the phone while you contract deadly deadly virus in scary lab FUCK