Lostindifference - Why..?

My family is still staying in half of the church that wasn’t affected by the bombing because there is nowhere else to stay other than tents. They are limited to one small meal a day and one shower a week. They are sleeping on the floors, but no one can sleep since there is bombing everywhere around them. Even when there is no bombing, they can still hear the loud buzzing sound of the military planes above them, which would keep anyone who hears it awake. Along with everything, My grandma has diabetes and osteoporosis, so she can’t walk. She has to take her insulin medication along with many others; however, she has run out of many of her medications.” Am on my knees requesting for donation. Target $450

Be aware of scammers stealing REAL Palestinian stories guys atomiclovedestiny happens to be one of many‼️

I just found out myself 😒😓

ADHD PRO TIP: if your space continually ends up cluttered, then your stuff is probably too difficult to put away or includes too many steps.

Let me explain.

Our brains can only handle so many steps in a task before the "eh, I'll do it later" instinct kicks in. When this happens, we set the object down on the nearest flat surface and let it pile up. Once it's down, it becomes scenery and we stop worrying about it (...until the clutter becomes stressful).

I have art supplies under my bed that can only be accessed by taking everything else out from under there first. Once I've done that and used my item, I never want to put it back because it's an entire ordeal. "I'll do it later." Yeah no the fuck I won't.

The solution was one of these bad boys:

Wheels so it can be moved around, clear so I can see what's in it, and separate drawers so I can store multiple types of objects separately. It's much easier to toss something back in the drawer than rearrange the underside of my bed for the fifth time.

Another example is laundry. It's practically a universal experience that ADHD people will move the laundry basket around our room instead of actually putting the clothes away. I do it frequently. While I can't eliminate that entirely, I can mitigate it for one simple reason: I hang up my shirts. Why have I been folding my shirts to put them in the basket, only to unfold them to hang them up? It's way more effective to just bring a bunch of hangers to the laundry room with me and go straight from dryer to hanger to closet.

The less steps a cleaning task has, the more likely we are to get it done.

That is actually a really good quote and I hope you find the motivation to write more one day. But yes ma’am I will get on my forcemasc regiment and come back to you with my results🫡

Tips for figuring out your gender plz 💔😕

Having to live a future you didn’t think you’d be alive for is so fucking hard

Lofi Garnet

“𝒚𝒐𝒖’𝒓𝒆 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕 𝒋𝒆𝒂𝒍𝒐𝒖𝒔 𝒍𝒊𝒔𝒂. 𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒂𝒖𝒔𝒆 𝒊 𝒈𝒐𝒕 𝒃𝒆𝒕𝒕𝒆𝒓. 𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒂𝒖𝒔𝒆 𝒊 𝒈𝒐𝒕 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒆𝒅. 𝒃𝒆𝒄𝒂𝒖𝒔𝒆 𝒊 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒂 𝒄𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆.”

You have to stop ruining things for yourself preemptively because you believe they’ll fail anyway. Give yourself a chance to succeed.