i hate that kind of sadness where your chest physically hurts
Me when I have to go to school
It’s annoying but the way you improve yourself is one tiny thing at a time
Please stop apologizing for having a heart that feels everything so deeply. It's a gift, wear it proudly.
I think the goal is not to be perfect and try to change everything of us (or others too, as we project on them our "dark" sides) but to accept ourselves despite our imperfections and "flaws". No matter how much we try, we'll always end up doing or saying something that can be considered wrong or bad, even unconsciously. And that's completely okay. We interface with different people, and we cannot please everyone or we'll just go crazy. But we need to please ourselves and give us a break. Be kind with ourselves as we're just trying. Appreciate who we are, light and dark. We'll always make mistakes, we'll always make a wrong choice... Sure we can try to change what we really do not appreciate, the coping mechanisms that are hindering and making us suffer (the ones we're not even aware of), but we need to remember there's no recipe to be perfect as there's no real perfection. We can always try to be better but we cannot reach that perfection we aim to as it doesn't exist. We cannot be that to feel accepted and included, to feel seen and valued, to feel less alone: people change their mind as the wind anyway. But we can see all of who we are and welcome our darkest side and try to feel more content and... not make us feel alone by abandoning and neglecting a side of us that still exists and needs our love, even if we accuse it to not let us be accepted by others. Maybe if we accepted it, accepted our whole self, and knew us... maybe we'd feel less alone, more apt to see our light within without having to compare to others and more open to others too.
Just a reminder: It’s better to brush your teeth in the middle of the night than not at all.
"Wow, you're so self-aware! It takes most people years of therapy and dedication to get to that point." Thanks, I constantly feel completely disconnected from my physical being and the material sensation of my body, brain, and spirit/soul is so overwhelming that I often have to see myself as an objective third-party instead of an integrated entity. Father son holy spirit and all that.
Got to keep reminding myself this
Being thin is morally neutral.
Being fat is morally neutral.
Being muscular is morally neutral.
Wanting to be thin is morally neutral.
Wanting to be fat is morally neutral.
Wanting to be muscular is morally neutral.
Taking steps to become thin is morally neutral
Taking steps to become fat is morally neutral
Taking steps to become muscular is morally neutral
Literally do whatever you want forever. Reblog is you agree.
Minor | I like poetry and writing | I'll probably vent a lot on here | I 🩶 Daniel Caeser
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