become The Laziest Shifter ,

　　　　things that won't stop you from shifting

　꒰ putting your dr on a pedestal , does not exist. it is not some glass castle suspended in the ether. it is a place like any other, as accessible as a room you haven’t walked into yet.　　

　꒰ fantasising about your dr , does not matter. your brain is not a courtroom and you are not on trial for thought crimes. imagining a place does not exile you from it.　　

　꒰ not knowing everything about your dr , won't impact. you do not need to be a historian of your own life. you do not need to have memorised the census records and economic structures of a world you are simply in.　

　꒰ being too attached to your dr , does not ruin it. urgency does not dismantle possibility. the sky does not fold in on itself every time someone desperately wants rain.　　

　꒰ not being "calm enough" , no one is breathing monkishly through their nose 24/7. you are not required to be an unmoved river stone. people shift after a long day at work. people shift mid-existential crisis. it is not yoga, it is not meditation, it is a thing that happens when it happens.　　

　꒰ doubting yourself from time to time , irrelevant. you do not need to pass a faith test. you do not need to be baptised in unwavering conviction. you just need to assume. doubt is a background noise, not a locked door.　　

　꒰ external validation , unnecessary. your reality is not waiting for someone else to confirm its legitimacy. you do not need a jury of peers nodding solemnly at your experiences. this is not an academic dissertation. you do not need footnotes and sources and a professor’s approval.　　

　꒰ "trying too hard" , not a thing. effort does not push it further away. want does not make it shy away. this is not an uncatchable fish. this is not a paradox where wanting something too much means you will never have it.　　

　꒰ failing to shift multiple times , irrelevant. past attempts do not predict future outcomes. you are not an athlete counting losses. you are not a gambler on a losing streak. every attempt is new. every moment is unburdened by the weight of the last one. 　

　꒰ an inconsistent sleep schedule , doesn’t matter. you are not being graded on your circadian rhythm. shifting does not belong exclusively to people with 8 hours of uninterrupted rem. 　

　꒰ using multiple shifting methods , neutral. you are not hexing yourself by switching it up. they are not magic spells, they are just tools. they are ways to organise your approach, not laws of the universe.　

　꒰ shifting while sick or in pain , possible. you do not need to be in peak physical condition. you are not signing up for a marathon, you are existing. bodies exist in all states. you are allowed to exist in all states.　

　꒰ not “feeling close” to shifting , doesn’t mean anything. shifting is not a feeling to be unlocked. you do not need to sense it coming like a change in the weather. it does not always announce itself.　

　꒰ having trouble visualising , won’t stop you. not everyone sees things like a movie in their head. imagination is not just images. it’s thoughts, impressions, instincts. a blind person can shift. a person with aphantasia can shift.　

　꒰ not affirming constantly , does not matter. you do not need to chant like a monk or plead sweet nothings into the void 24/7.　

　꒰ being distracted mid-shifting attempt , not fatal. you are not required to have monk-like focus. people shift thinking about their homework. people shift thinking about dinner. people shift thinking about absolutely nothing at all.　

　꒰ not having a specific shifting method , does not stop you. people shift lying down. people shift sitting up. people shift standing. people shift in moving cars. you do not need a formula to do something natural.　

Guys, this is a reminder that shifting is not supposed to feel like a chore. Shifting is effortless. You don't have to lay down for hours without moving. You can roll over and just go to sleep. You can do nothing and shift. You can do anything and shift.

When shifters talk about methods that involve emotions or the environment, it often sounds like you have to feel something intense for it to work.

I used to believe that too — that I had to live and breathe my symptoms for it to "work" that they had to be exaggerated and overwhelming for shifting to happen.

But here’s the truth: shifting doesn’t need to be felt to happen.

Shifting isn’t about chasing signs. It’s not about how strongly you imagine your bedsheets changing, or how much emotion fills your chest. In fact, clinging to those feelings often just grounds you "deeper" into this reality. It can make you over-focus, doubt, and overthink.

Shifting often feels like nothing at all.

There are no overwhelming emotions you must experience to prove to yourself it’s happening.

it’s okay if you’re scared. shifting doesn’t have a deadline. it will always be there. there’s no expiration date, no final moment when everything has to be right. you will shift eventually, just … breathe. even if it’s not right now which is okay. you can always have another try at it. again. and again. it will always be there. whatever you do don’t let the fear shrink you. you’re stronger than that. stronger than you think.

trust yourself. you’ll find your way.

s/o motivation

them zipping up your dress before an event (or vice versa)

running your hands through their hair while they lay their head in your lap

them racing around the house helping you look for something you lost

creating a shared playlist together

loudly singing together no matter how bad you guys sound

splitting up chores and helping the other

tying their tie before an event

holding hands while walking through paparazzi

them having their hand on your thigh (or the other way around) or just holding hands under the awards show table

them tearing up during your award acceptance speech

them not being able to keep their hands off of you

the hugs from behind

them laughing into your neck after you say something

them pushing you into a pool and laughing but then asking if you’re okay

splashing each other in the water

chasing each other around

them throwing you over their shoulder or bridal style spinning you around

just laughing together.

them taking off your makeup and helping you out of your clothes when you’re too tired

you helping them out of their clothes when they’re too tired

taking a shower together just wanting to help clean and care for each other

taking care of them when they’re sick

them taking care of you when you’re sick

both of you being so tired you just sit in silence and hold each other

giving them a nickname no one else can use

you both alternating driving during a long trip so both of you can rest

knowing what the other is thinking based off a look

knowing what the other is feeling without saying anything

waking up to them peacefully sleeping with messy hair

them coming home and just resting their head on you

watching edits of each other and sending them back and forth

their face lighting up as soon as your name is mentioned

I love making these

stop focusing on your senses

when shifting, your physical senses are the last to shift! when you’re hyper-aware of your body, you could be anchoring yourself to your current reality.

let go.

detach from the need to feel immediate sensations and trust the process. you are in control.

focus on your intention, not on whether you ‘feel’ it happening. this is why i like to make it clear that not everyone feels physical symptoms, and that is okay!!! shifting is about aligning your consciousness, not forcing physical proof.

remind yourself: you are already shifting. every thought, every visualization, every moment spent in alignment with your desired reality brings you closer.

release the need for validation. your experience is valid, whether or not you feel tingles, heaviness, or detachment. trust in your mind’s power.

shifting isn’t something you have to ‘catch’ happening - it’s something you allow to unfold.

a/n; if anyone has any idea of what they would like me to make a post about, go ahead and use my asks <3

HOW TO SHIFT (for dummies)

— this information is what I picked up from the book i’m currently reading ‘Becoming Supernatural by Dr. Joe Dispenza’ (I highly suggest reading)

— all shifting is/quantum jumping is, is shifting your awareness to a different reality

• meditate until you get into a no thought zone/state

+ this may take minutes for some people and hours for others but you need to take the time. if you are impatient, try the 68 seconds of pure thought by Abraham Hicks -> watch this video

+ pure thought states make it easier for the brain to simply manifestations

• be aware

+ or in other words, acknowledge your reality beyond your senses, begin to understand your reality and that it is already yours

In Dr. Dispenza’s book it says

‘The only way you can exist in the quantum is as awareness…

experience this realm is with your awareness’

as in, the reality you have has and been created long before, you just became aware that it existed and you’re learning how to become aware in it. creation is already finished.

Relationships in this reality are so not it, like wdym being nonchalant and casual about your relationship? there's no bound, like in my dr me and my man couldn't stay away from each other, the moment i shift again y'all aren't seeing any nonchalant act from me, like i'm gonna remember every little detail, every date, everything.