Chai tea bag + lil but of brown sugar + apple cider packet + 16 oz. mug of hot but not quite boiling water
it will not Fix You but like. maybe. maybe.
Henry Miller in a letter to Anaïs Nin, A Literate Passion: Letters of Anaïs Nin Henry Miller, 1932-1953
“I sometimes need to write things which I cannot completely control but which therefore prove that what is in me is stronger than I am.”
— Albert Camus
Yannis Ritsos, trans. by Kimon Friar, from a poem featured in "Erotica: Love Poems,"
“Forgive yourself for not knowing what you didn’t know before you learned it.”
— Maya Angelou
Crazy how bullying is not really acknowledged as a real trauma like you really have to endure years and years of lord of the flies and then just move on like it never happened
embarrassment has good bones
“Understanding your past and embarking on a new future can be a bittersweet process. Shining a light on what happened to you and how it affected your choices can stir up sadness about what you’ve lost or never had. That’s the way light is. It shines on everything, not just the things we want to see. When you decide to uncover the truth about yourself and your family relationships, you may be surprised by what’s revealed, especially when you see how these patterns have been passed down through the generations. Sometimes you may wonder whether all this knowledge is for the best. It may even seem as though it would be better not to know.”
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Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, Lindsay C. Gibson