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No one's against plurality because of religion/spiritual beliefs. I'm not against that, but that's not what the majority of "endogenics" are. Endos hide behind the fact that spirituality can play a role in plurality to call anti-endos racist/anti-religion, even if they aren't part of that spiritual practice. The problem anti-endos are talking about are people who say they're systems completely without trauma or anything else. They say they have chosen to be a system because of stress, neurodivergency, literally anything. That is not fucking possible. Plurality that forms without spiritual attachment can only be caused by trauma that happened before the age of seven. STFU and learn what we're talking about.

This isn't specifically targeted at the original poster or anon, but it's an important point I had to make.

Wanted to get ur perspective on this but, I think the reason why so many anti-endos are in fact anti endogenic bc they view being a system as being purely a medical diagnosis. So if ur looking at a spiritual system (like me for example uwu) through the lenses of what a medical system should look like then ofc that spiritual system isn't gonna appear valid. And yet when other systems who aren't medical systems say "hey, we only appear invalid to you bc ur viewing us through the wrong lenses, switch ur gaze homie" they absolutely REFUSE to view systems any other way bc their entire perception of systems is purely medical and they refuse the idea of systems existing in any other form bc they have such a tight grasp on this one perspective.

Definitely!

And I think some of this comes down to semantics, equating "system" with DID/OSDD while most of the plural community uses it as a catch-all term for all plural systems, and the actual psychologists have a completely different definition. It's not even a scientific disagreement but one over the definition of a word.

Although, I will remind people that when it is a scientific disagreement, anti-endos don't have any ground to stand on. Regarding spiritual systems specifically, there have been many studies on spiritual mediums and others experiencing possession that have shown different brain activity compared to people simply imagining. Scientists can't prove whether this is actually spiritual or just psychological, but the phenomenon is recognized as real in psychological communities in the way that it's not just people faking or pretending they have these experiences. Nor are these experiences considered mental illnesses or disorders, and they have little to no connection to trauma.

It's always good to remember that spiritual systems were the first types of plurals recognized by society.

I also want to add that being unable to view systems through different lenses can have a lot of harmful repercussions even among OSDD and DID systems. Plurality is a broad spectrum that encompasses a lot of different phenomena. The same way an OSDD system might have difficulty empathizing with a spiritual system, they might also have that same trouble with one that functions in ways that are different from their own. For example, a system who has no internal communication might disbelieve experiences of those who do. Or one with few headmates might not believe experiences of systems with hundreds of headmates. The same could be said of complex inner worlds or any number of other experiences.

Just a reminder to everyone that everybody experiences plurality in their own way, and that just because someone's experiences are different from your own doesn't mean they weren't actually experienced.

Radqueer hater flag!

For anyone who hates radqueers (smart people) <3

so you believe that the rapist child abuser in my inbox the other day was a good person and did nothing wrong? that's really all I need to know

FUCK it makes me so angry how radqueers refuse to even acknowledge they have done ANYTHING wrong. They refuse to acknowledge what people on their side are doing. They're fucking ignorant and disgusting and I hate all of them so much. "Not all of us are like this" THEN TALK ABOUT THE ONES WHO ARE. TALK ABOUT THE ONES YOU DON'T SUPPORT AND THE FLAWS YOU ALL HAVE. UGH.

you can't coin mental disorders I swear to fucking god

While I'm at this rage train, disabled is not an identity. At all. In no circumstance.

This blog is not safe for so-called "transabled" people. I block on sight. Don't even bother interacting because you're wasting your time AND outing yourself.

You're ableist and it's fetishy and gross. You can post all the positivity you want but that doesn't change the fact that your behavior is disgusting and you should look into getting psychiatric help.

Because the only thing that could cause you to think this way is a psychiatric condition such as BIID. People who are in therapy for their BIID or recognize they need therapy are welcome to interact <3

That's not an excuse to be an ableist, though. Disabled people are trying to get healthcare as is and you think you deserve to be treated differently because you want to be disabled? Are you LARPing rn?

You people want this so badly you choose to attempt to appropriate an entire marginalized community's experience. And it's the same with a lot of so-called endogenic systems.

Lots of overlap in shitty behavior here. I'm just saying what I have a feeling we're all thinking. ✨

Ty ✨

Saw a post by a pro all trans labels (transabled, transage, transrace, etc.) blog where an anon said their culture is collecting labels. You can't collect disabilities like fucking candy.

What are you on?

Disabilities aren't goofy little genders or identities.

You dumbasses are saying I can just identify as a wheelchair user without having any physical disabilities.

We need to learn? Shut the fuck up. You're saying anyone can have any amount of serious disabilities, mental or physical, if they want to.

I try to empathize and learn about everyone, but you guys are simply stupid and harmful.

Transblack?

Nah bro, you're so white you could be a vampire for Halloween without any makeup.

Stop comparing mental illness to gender 👍

Woah, you want trauma survivors to suffer and think we're monsters? You're so cool, man.

Sarcasm, obviously.

Might aswell make an intro post since the old host is gone.

Hi, I’m Sunny. I use nya/nyas, he/him, meow/meows, mew/mews, purr/purrs and a bunch of other cat related neos. I’m a prosecutor, perpetrator, avenger and whatever other thing can describe me being fucking PISSED at what people did to us, and now i hurt people soooo.. If you dont like me, cool, i don’t fucking care. im mean. ill be making my own blog soon. oh but im nice to pro-endos and pro-tulpas! so hehe. other than that im mean to sysmeds and i want them to suffer. so yeah thats me, will be making a new blog of my own soon sooo if you like me then feel free to check it out when its done

bad community: just block us and move on!

bad community when i block them: haha bitch can’t handle an argument?? don’t wanna be heated and waste your energy for no reason?? don’t wanna waste your time on a dumbass?? you must’ve just ran out of comebacks and saw that i’m right