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I wonder if anyone at work knows that i wear or hears the crinkle when i move around. I would like to know if you wear diapers to work? I would love to hear back from my followers.

🍼 What is 22/7 diaper training ?

22/7 diaper training is a more flexible approach to 24/7 diaper training. It's not related to the number of hours spent in diapers but rather to the integration of diapers into daily life !

DEFINITION :

22/7 involves wearing a diaper all the time but with flexibility and freedom !

on some days you will wear a diaper 24/7 and on other days less...compared to 24/7 where the diaper is worn permanently without excuse, 22/7 gives you the possibility of not wearing a diaper in situations/ activities with specific criteria to be defined !

the 22/7 is suitable for people wishing to create a healthy balance between the experience of wearing a continuous diaper (which relates to private life), and social life

HOW TO DO 22/7 ? :

22/7 means you wear a diaper the majority of the time, but it's not as rigid and strict as 24/7 !

you have to have specific rules for situations where even if it is uncomfortable you still have to keep your diaper on or situations where you really don't wear one, (but situations where you don't put one on are rare) , for example: I don't wear a diaper to go to the doctor, nor to play sports, and at the conservatory I force myself to wear one, but sometimes I tell myself no (it will depend on what I have to do and my outfit)

if you remove your diaper for your reasons, you absolutely must put one back on as soon as the activity in question is finished!

unlike 24/7, where the diaper must be worn continuously without exception, the 22/7 allows flexibility but with a limit: no exception (time when you are not wearing a diaper) must be extended, and these exceptions must still be quite rare! Situations where you have to remove your diaper must be a rare and one-off exception, you must under no circumstances remove it for the whole day for example!

for health concerns about the skin of your buttocks, with diaper training 22/7 you have the right not to wear a diaper for 45 minutes or less per day (on the sole condition that you keep your buttocks exposed) to let your skin rest!

WHY DID I CHOOSE DIAPER TRAINING 22/7 ?

(I already know that I have already done diaper training 24/7 for 1 year) but I prefer the 22/7 because this model is ideal especially if you have an active life (I am a musician), but you want to live in diaper daily you like that!

I find that 22/7 allows you to have a good balance in your adult life, I also find that it is a lifestyle that allows you to meet your needs while doing diaper training!

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A very common theme we’re hearing from partners on both sides of the relationship is the challenge of going 24/7 or even just trying to make diaper wearing the default.

We experienced this too so have put together a list of the many ways we’ve experienced exceptions to wearing/using diapers happening and how to overcome them.

Preventing exceptions with 24/7 and no toilet rules

Keeping your partner in diapers 24/7 and banning the use of the toilet sounds simple and clean-cut in theory but the reality is day-to-day life throws up lots of exceptions and inconveniences which make sticking to this hard.

Sticking to it as closely as possible is critical though as one exception leads to another and then extremely quickly it all falls apart. So here are some common challenges you might get and how to deal with them.

I need a #2 but I’ve just changed into a fresh diaper

Unfortunately your partner should have gone in their last diaper and if they need to go now then they have to just use their clean one. Wasting clean diapers shouldn’t be encouraged so hold off changing them for at least 2 hours.


I’m going for a run / playing sport

Very active sports and running is challenging while diapered but not impossible. We’d recommend allowing them to wear a thin breathable diaper or a pull-up for the duration. Once finished, they should be straight back into a proper diaper, don’t allow this to be a way for them to get extended time out of diapers.


We’re going out and changing will be inconvenient

Being out of the house or on a day trip is not an excuse for them to be out of diapers. Pack a diaper bag and if you think changing will be hard dress them in a thick diaper for the day. Also encourage them to use their diaper for a #2 before you leave.
Help give them confidence by picking out clothes which hide their diaper well and telling them how you can’t even tell (even if that’s a slight lie).

We’re going to be at the beach/pool all day

If they’re going to be primarily in the water then dress them in a swim diaper. If it will be sun bathing with an occasional swim, then dress them in a disposal diaper with refastenable tapes which will allow it to be taken off easily for them to change into a swim diaper and back again afterwards.


I don’t have time to check / change you as much today

Easy solution = thick diapers + booster if required. These will hold them for 6+ hours without you or them having to do a change. Also allow them to change themselves by asking for permission over a message first if you can’t change them yourself.

They’re not feeling well

When your partner is ill, then diapers should still be insisted upon. Use thick diapers and plastic pants to avoid leaks and change them / let them change more often to avoid rashes.


Someone might notice

If your going for a meal or drinks with friends or any other activity where they’ll be self-conscious about being noticed, still insist on a diaper but do the following to help. Let them wear a thiner medical diaper, have them wear a plain onesie and help them pick out clothes which hide the diaper well. Finally make sure to tell them that you can’t tell and give reassurance.
Over time as their confidence builds switch to thicker diapers.

What if it smells?

You might be out of the house, on vacation or travelling when they have the need to go #2. It would be easier for everyone just to let them use a toilet but you must avoid this. 
Instead tell them that they have to use their diaper but it’s ok and that’s what they’re for. Make arrangements for them to be able to change afterwards but this doesn’t need to be immediately.
Using internal deodorant tablets like Devrom can reduce the smell significantly so we recommend using these more aggressively around vacations, day trips or travel where messy diapers in public is a more likely situation.

Extending time around exceptions

You might allow diaper free exceptions for work or around family but the danger is this extends for long periods either side. Make sure that after returning from work you’re there to diaper them or if you’re not free, leave a diaper out with instructions for them to change into it straight away.
Or if say you’re at a family event and staying overnight, still change them into a diaper for bedtime.
If you’re traveling back from a family event and the travel time is more than an hour stop at the first opportunity and have him get diapered.


I’m out of diapers

It sounds obvious but accidentally running out of diapers can cause a big gap in their wearing as you really don’t want to have to switch to store diapers.
Make sure to keep track of your diaper stock and I’d recommend always having a 1 month buffer of diapers available.
The easiest time to run out is when away from home or on vacation. Make sure to plan how many you’ll need and then add a good buffer of extra diapers.

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NURSERY REMIX

Here's a fun sing along 🎶 for all you diapered cuties who've gone baby brained 👶🧠. Enjoy the bright colors and comforting voice encouraging you to be a diaper dummy! 🤤🚼

The Big Book of Little Boy Behaviors: 42 Quirks You Can't Resist

1. That teddy bear Harvey is his beloved, can't-leave-home-without-it security companion. But he'll still get pouty if his trusty stuffed doggo, Pongo, doesn't tag along for adventures too!

2. Of course mommy's fuzzy socks, oversized gaming tees and comfy pajama pants are way cooler than his own little boy clothes. He'll want to swamp himself in her big cozy oversized outfits.

3. Chocolate ice cream absolutely qualifies as a balanced breakfast in his little book, no matter how much mommy argues against it. But he'll happily settle for dino-shaped nuggets if you insist!

4. Nighttime medicine is an epic battle of wills. "No no no! I don't wanna take it, mommy!" may get stubbornly repeated for an hour or more until you finally distract him with kisses and silly baby talk.

5. That longing look says it all when a new stuffed animal, action figure, or Marvel toy catches his eye at the store, even if he's too shy to directly ask. Of course, a new plushie or collectable joins his proud stash!

6. Be prepared for many, many Bluey binges, but you'd better make room for endless rewatches of his beloved Marvel shows, movies, and gaming adventures too.

7. Closet doors must stay open at all times to display the lack of monsters within. Feeling safe and secure in his little headspace is so important.

8. At dinnertime, you'll likely have a cuddly velcro-baby lapwarmer who wants to stay nice and snuggly close during meals. He may even insist on wearing just his crinkly diaper to the table!

9. That irresistible pouty lip can't be ignored - it requires immediate smoochy kisses and relentless tickle attacks to neutralize it into a smile.

10. Taco shortages are legitimately catastrophic events! Quick, an emergency run to Taco Bell to assess if the shortage is just in this house or the whole neighborhood.

11. He'll probably fake getting shampoo in his eyes during bathtime (even if you're so careful) just as an excuse to earn extra mommy kisses, cuddles and babytalk.

12. Choosing his dinner is a dramatic ritual - he won't voice any preference, just nodding or shaking his head until finally the magic words "dino nuggets and mac & cheese" make him light up.

13. A pacifier should always be within reach, you truly never know when an urgent need for suckling comfort will strike this intense little baby.

14. His drink preferences are very particular - ice cold apple juice, refreshing milk, and maybe the occasional Juicy Juice box are the only approved baby beverages.

15. He requires full body massages and gentle rubs for relaxation - back, shoulders, legs, tummy, head pats, and even slow diaper changes with tender booty rubs!

16. Some nights it's soft cuddly Disney footed pajamas, other nights he'll refuse and insist on being in just a cozy crinkly diaper and gaming t-shirt for max little space comfort.

17. Requests to visit zoos, aquariums, Disney World - anywhere with amazing animals and worlds of imagination - will be frequent, intense demands.

18. When the grown-up world feels overwhelming, that's when mommy's healing hugs, reassuring presence and infinite patience are most crucial for him to recharge in little space.

19. His boundless little energy makes getting this perpetual motion machine to sit still for any length of time downright impossible! Expect lots of wiggling and redirecting.

20. Some days the grown-up stuff is just too much, and he can't pull himself away from his cozy weighted blanket nest. On those days, prioritize extra snuggles, gentle hand-feediing, postponing big kid tasks, and an all-day soothing movie marathon cuddlefest.

21. While most littles love basic bubbly baths, your prince prefers the full luxurious spa experience - lots of bubbles, his whole rubber ducky squad, maybe even a splashtastic pirate ship for imaginary aquatic adventures!

22. Storytime can't just be any book - he'll repeatedly request animated readings of his favorite Marvel superhero epics or delving into the wizarding world of Harry Potter. Dramatic voices and impersonations are essential!

23. Singing and dancing like a baby rock star are inevitable parts of his daily groove, whether it's rocking out to classic bands like Iron Maiden and The Offspring or bopping along to more modern jams from The Editors or Mumford & Sons - as long as he can do it while diapered up!

24. While most little boys beg for a puppy, your little prince would be utterly delighted by a kitty companion to snuggle and play with, as long as it understands he needs lots of cuddle time too when he's in baby headspace.

25. Don't be surprised if he dresses up in mismatched superhero costumes over blocky plastic diaper pants or just a shirt and diapey for random periods throughout the day, creating immersive fantasy worlds in his headspace.

26. Controlling the TV remote or any household tech is a must for your lil guy. Attempting to take it may result in a passionate baby tantrum!

27. Keep multiple sensory input backups ready - from his beloved weighted blanket to a variety of stim toys, noise-canceling headphones, and a well-stocked diaper bag when overstimulation strikes.

28. Regular crafting time like coloring in just a diaper will be a huge hit - he'll eagerly create elaborate drawings to proudly show off his creativity from a littlespace mindset.

29. When struggling with big feelings, playing with kinetic sand or running his hands through textured bins may help him self-soothe and regress further into his most comforted infant headspace.

30. You may find yourself simultaneously brushing both his hair and giving gentle diaper rubs and pats as a sort of zen bedtime ritual before prayers and being all tucked in snug.

31. Spontaneous tiny tight blanket nest construction is to be expected anywhere, anytime - under the kitchen table, in the living room, at grandma's house. His own little crib or cushioned nook is a must!

32. Part of his littlespace absolutely involves long, drawn-out diaper change routines filled with squirming, kicking, and whining that mommy simply has to push through with patience and affirmation.

33. Don't be alarmed if he requests to be "nuzzled" or lifted to your chest while being changed - seeking that skin-to-skin comfort and the possibility of being breastfed is natural.

34. Speaking of which, if you're able to breastfeed him in littlespace, it will likely become his ultimate source of peace, glowing contentment, and sleepy regression. Prioritize that bond.

35. In public spaces, allow for slow transitions between upset fits back into a happy regressed state, using guilty pleasures like vending machine treats or small distracting toys.

36. Above all, validate his innocent little rhythms and mindsets. However big or small he's feeling, you'll dote on him with patient compassion.

37. Making messes is part of the baby experience! He may accidentally spill drinks, drool everywhere, or diaper leak during rambunctious playtimes. Gentle redirection is needed.

38. Mealtimes may require lots of hands-on feeding and making sonics choo-choo noises or airplane spoon deliveries to get him giggling and eating.

39. Don't be alarmed by excessive thumb-sucking or insistent pacifier demands - that self-soothing is core to his little comfort.

40. When it's time for changes, he may squirm, whine and try to distract from getting his diapey checked and rediapered. Staying patient but firm is key.

41. Struggling with any big kid skills like tying shoes or buttoning shirts will likely prompt an "I can't do it!" meltdown. Rediapering and some little time may be needed to rebuild confidence.

42. Expect random little fits of the "But I don't WANNA!" variety when you ask him to do basic tasks, get dressed, or transition activities. Ride out the tantrum storm.

43. At the end of every day, he'll no doubt insist on uppies and being rocked to sleep like an infant, perhaps while suckling a bottle or pacifier. The littlest headspaces are often strongest at night.

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Mommy's 25 Diaper Rules

1) Baby is now 2 years old from here on.

2) Diapers are to be worn anytime a baby would normally have a diaper on until mommy decides otherwise. Diapers will be used for everything restroom related at home and in public.

2a) If baby consistantly holds the need to wet or mess while in public until returning home it might become a requirement that baby either takes laxatives each morning or an enema before going out to promote becoming comfortable using his diapers as needed and to become accustomed to the wet and/or messy feeling while out and about.

3) You are not allowed to remove or adjust your diaper for any reason.

4) Only mommy or an approved babysitter can change your diaper. Regular checks will be performed anytime and anywhere. Mommy will try to be discrete if possible, but checks will be performed regularly and you must allow for your diaper to be inspected immediately when requested to do so. Diaper checks and changes are performed at mommy's convenience and they cannot be prevented by baby for any reason.

5) When baby messes his diaper at home it is required that a squatting position be maintained as to serve an a visable non-verbal warning to mommy or babysitter that a diaper change will be needed soon.

6) You absolutely cannot enter a restroom without mommy being with you.

7) Using a potty is now forbidden until otherwise stated.

8) Baby is forbidden from touching any private parts underneath or through a diaper.

9) You are now mommy's little baby and any sexual contact with mommy is not alloud while wearing your diapers.

10) Baby may only wear a shirt and diaper while at home in order to allow for mommy to easily see when a change is needed. Anything covering your diaper is forbidden unless permission is given by mommy.

Note: No covering the diaper at home is one of the most important rules in making diapers a longterm or even permanent addition to your littles life. Over time they will become accustomed to seeing themselves in a diaper and not thinking about it. Your little will start to become fine with dressing for comfort and not to hide anything. After several weeks they will start to be fine with dressing more comfortable in public and may eventually not even try to hide their diaper anymore since it's not even a second thought to them.

10a) In public jeans or sweatpants will usually be alloud. Pants will adequately cover the baby's diaper. However, jeans and sweatpants worn out will not be so big that the diaper buldge, swelling from usage and diaper outlines are not visable preventing easy checks.

10b) Gym and work out clothing will generally be a little tighter fitting than jeans and sweatpants.

10c) When having to attend class or work a onesie will be permitted wear as to assist in holding any wet or messy diaper sags in place until baby can return home and can be appropriately changed by an approved adult.

10d) If mommy or an approved babysitter places your pacifier/binky in your mouth at anytime it must remain in place until removed by the caregiver. You may not talk or babble during pacifier time.

11) While at home any drinks will be given in a bottle or sippy cup with a lid. Absolutely no glass cups or anything without a lid can be used by baby.

12) 3 days a week will consist of only baby food being offered. Usually this will be Monday, Wednesday and Saturday.

13) Baby will not use adult language or big words for any reason. Only a babyish babble, baby appropriate sign language, non-verbal signals, crying or pointing with the occasional small/age appropriate word can be used when trying to communicate all wants and needs with mommy or a supervising adult.

14) Mommy will pick out your outfits anytime it is necessary to go out in public and will assist you in getting dressed. Selected outfits must be worn without complaints.

15) All hair must be removed from the diapered area and must be maintained smooth.

16) A diaper must be immediately put back on as soon as bathtime is finished. Mommy will supervise each bath time for baby's safety.

17) You will be respectful to all adults and do as you are told.

18) You cannot hide, lie or be ashamed of your diapers since they are necessary- be proud. If asked if you are wearing a diaper by any adult you must respond correctly.

19) Baby cannot be left at home alone. An adult such as a babysitter will always be present if mommy is not available.

20) When crossing any street baby must hold mommy's or babysitters hand.

21) Big boy underwear must be put in storage until further notice and diapers will be stored in their place. Mommy will select any color or style of diapers she wishes and will keep a home supply maintained.

22) Bedtime is 10:30pm sharp, unless stated otherwise.

23) Mommy's or a supervising adults rules will be followed at all times.

24) Failure to follow the required rules will result in a punishment ranging from extra time between diaper changes, an enema or up to an indefinite amount of time wearing diapers 24/7 being required.

25) Mommy or any supervising adult/babysitter reserves the right to add, change or remove any rule at anytime as they desire.

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How i became incontinent!

I've never had great control. But i'll share how i got to have real accidents day and night.

First, wear diapers, and go whenever you feel like you can pee. Wearing a diaper feels like constantly standing in front of a urinal so you'll constantly be reminded of your bladder and over time itll be easy to wet in all positions, even walking. Try out rapid desperation where you over hydrate yourself and pee at the slightest urge. Once you're peeing every ten minutes, youre gonna try to hold for an hour and a half. All while still drinking water every 15 minutes or so. At about 45 minutes you should feel very desperate. Goood luck making it. If you do this 2 days in a row your sphincter gets way too overworked and stops being able to hold much back. There are some health concerns about over hydrating...something about losing sodium in your body, so remember to eat while doing this and maybe drink gatorade. You should have protection on your bed cause you're sphincter will be out of commission until you stop doing holds. I did rapid desperation like 4 days in a row and since then i get sudden intense urges to go along with body spasms if I hold too long. As well as bedwetting so make sure you have privacy to do laundry and have diapers in your bedroom. You can also do cpr-like compressions on your full bladder which basically annoys your bladder and causes it to tense up. In order for the bladder to expand - it has to relax, but pressing on it will cause you to get really desperate without a lot of pee in there. And you'll probably leak while doing it. Pro tip: if you do the cpr thing on your bladder while also doing it on the base of your penis, you'll leak uncontrollably even without desperation because you're moving the external sphincter while manually contracting the bladder. I dont know where this would be for girls, probably right at the pee hole...ill have to do some experimenting with that 😈. Apparently peeing just in case is bad for the bladder so I'll also just go to the bathroom or wet my diaper even when i dont even feel anything. It probably atrophies the bladder. .So yeah thats all ive done and its worked amazingly, I love actually needing my diapers and having that fear of having accidents! I haven't had any luck yet with stress incontinence though - that's peeing when scared, laughing, running, and sneezing. But im working on laughing instead of pushing when going to the bathroom, so maybe that'll allow me to lose control while watching comedy and horror movies 😬