Preventing Exceptions With 24/7 And No Toilet Rules

A very common theme we’re hearing from partners on both sides of the relationship is the challenge of going 24/7 or even just trying to make diaper wearing the default.

We experienced this too so have put together a list of the many ways we’ve experienced exceptions to wearing/using diapers happening and how to overcome them.

Preventing exceptions with 24/7 and no toilet rules

Keeping your partner in diapers 24/7 and banning the use of the toilet sounds simple and clean-cut in theory but the reality is day-to-day life throws up lots of exceptions and inconveniences which make sticking to this hard.

Sticking to it as closely as possible is critical though as one exception leads to another and then extremely quickly it all falls apart. So here are some common challenges you might get and how to deal with them.

I need a #2 but I’ve just changed into a fresh diaper

Unfortunately your partner should have gone in their last diaper and if they need to go now then they have to just use their clean one. Wasting clean diapers shouldn’t be encouraged so hold off changing them for at least 2 hours. 

I’m going for a run / playing sport

Very active sports and running is challenging while diapered but not impossible. We’d recommend allowing them to wear a thin breathable diaper or a pull-up for the duration. Once finished, they should be straight back into a proper diaper, don’t allow this to be a way for them to get extended time out of diapers. 

We’re going out and changing will be inconvenient

Being out of the house or on a day trip is not an excuse for them to be out of diapers. Pack a diaper bag and if you think changing will be hard dress them in a thick diaper for the day. Also encourage them to use their diaper for a #2 before you leave. Help give them confidence by picking out clothes which hide their diaper well and telling them how you can’t even tell (even if that’s a slight lie).

We’re going to be at the beach/pool all day

If they’re going to be primarily in the water then dress them in a swim diaper. If it will be sun bathing with an occasional swim, then dress them in a disposal diaper with refastenable tapes which will allow it to be taken off easily for them to change into a swim diaper and back again afterwards. 

I don’t have time to check / change you as much today

Easy solution = thick diapers + booster if required. These will hold them for 6+ hours without you or them having to do a change. Also allow them to change themselves by asking for permission over a message first if you can’t change them yourself.

They’re not feeling well

When your partner is ill, then diapers should still be insisted upon. Use thick diapers and plastic pants to avoid leaks and change them / let them change more often to avoid rashes. 

Someone might notice

If your going for a meal or drinks with friends or any other activity where they’ll be self-conscious about being noticed, still insist on a diaper but do the following to help. Let them wear a thiner medical diaper, have them wear a plain onesie and help them pick out clothes which hide the diaper well. Finally make sure to tell them that you can’t tell and give reassurance. Over time as their confidence builds switch to thicker diapers.

What if it smells?

You might be out of the house, on vacation or travelling when they have the need to go #2. It would be easier for everyone just to let them use a toilet but you must avoid this.  Instead tell them that they have to use their diaper but it’s ok and that’s what they’re for. Make arrangements for them to be able to change afterwards but this doesn’t need to be immediately. Using internal deodorant tablets like Devrom can reduce the smell significantly so we recommend using these more aggressively around vacations, day trips or travel where messy diapers in public is a more likely situation.

Extending time around exceptions

You might allow diaper free exceptions for work or around family but the danger is this extends for long periods either side. Make sure that after returning from work you’re there to diaper them or if you’re not free, leave a diaper out with instructions for them to change into it straight away. Or if say you’re at a family event and staying overnight, still change them into a diaper for bedtime. If you’re traveling back from a family event and the travel time is more than an hour stop at the first opportunity and have him get diapered. 

I’m out of diapers

It sounds obvious but accidentally running out of diapers can cause a big gap in their wearing as you really don’t want to have to switch to store diapers. Make sure to keep track of your diaper stock and I’d recommend always having a 1 month buffer of diapers available. The easiest time to run out is when away from home or on vacation. Make sure to plan how many you’ll need and then add a good buffer of extra diapers.

A Very Common Theme We’re Hearing From Partners On Both Sides Of The Relationship Is The Challenge

You must wear your diapers 24/7 during

punishment and use them for their intended purpose.

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Sie müssen Ihre Windeln rund um die Uhr tragen

Bestrafung und verwenden Sie sie für den vorgesehenen Zweck.

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5 months ago

The girls at the party dressed me and I had to do what they asked for and I couldn’t do anything against that, because I was chained Komplett eingekleidet hilflos in Ketten musste ich mich den Mädchen präsentieren

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7 months ago

Potty Training

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You should have to get recertified in potty training every 2 years to keep up with advancements in the field

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Women pretty much only want to date a guy who is potty trained

Always talking about getting coffee like it's nothing?

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I went through potty training almost 30 years ago. You really expect me to remember any of that?

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Normal underwear is the black belt of potty training

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Some people claim to be potty trained. But I don’t think it’s something that you can ever truly fully attain. I believe it’s an ongoing process, a endless struggle for perfection. A lifelong journey.

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I studied potty training under Bob and Sara Feldman in the 90's, but I dropped out when I realized they just taught the typical practices. Seemed like they didn't really have anything interesting or innovative to say in the space

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I dropped out of formal potty training to focus on more hands-on pooping

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My buddy was potty trained by his parents. So I asked if his parents would be down to teach me, and he said no!!!

Wow… Their techniques must be a closely guarded family secret.

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I’m living proof that you can get potty trained or lose your virginity in any order. Probably to be honest - I'm getting pretty close I think. I’ve got some irons in the fire for both

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Public restrooms don’t mean anything as a service unless they also offer public potty training lessons. You expect me to just know what to do in there?

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Diapers are so expensive because capitalism seeks to punish those who aren’t potty trained

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Date: I’m a sapiosexual. I’m sexually attracted to intelligence

Me: I tighten my collar and lean in oh yeah, is that so? Well, I actually just so happen to be potty trained. That’s right… these are big boy pants 😏👖

Date: waiter, check please

Me: Ope 😳 might have spoke too soon. I think I just went potty

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When I drink a coffee and then leave the house too soon, that's a choreographed potty dance

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When a child is doing the potty dance, it's like. Cope much?

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I always take some molly with my laxatives. I'm trying to get lost in the potty dance

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7 months ago

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1 year ago

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1 year ago

How i became incontinent!

I've never had great control. But i'll share how i got to have real accidents day and night.

First, wear diapers, and go whenever you feel like you can pee. Wearing a diaper feels like constantly standing in front of a urinal so you'll constantly be reminded of your bladder and over time itll be easy to wet in all positions, even walking. Try out rapid desperation where you over hydrate yourself and pee at the slightest urge. Once you're peeing every ten minutes, youre gonna try to hold for an hour and a half. All while still drinking water every 15 minutes or so. At about 45 minutes you should feel very desperate. Goood luck making it. If you do this 2 days in a row your sphincter gets way too overworked and stops being able to hold much back. There are some health concerns about over hydrating...something about losing sodium in your body, so remember to eat while doing this and maybe drink gatorade. You should have protection on your bed cause you're sphincter will be out of commission until you stop doing holds. I did rapid desperation like 4 days in a row and since then i get sudden intense urges to go along with body spasms if I hold too long. As well as bedwetting so make sure you have privacy to do laundry and have diapers in your bedroom. You can also do cpr-like compressions on your full bladder which basically annoys your bladder and causes it to tense up. In order for the bladder to expand - it has to relax, but pressing on it will cause you to get really desperate without a lot of pee in there. And you'll probably leak while doing it. Pro tip: if you do the cpr thing on your bladder while also doing it on the base of your penis, you'll leak uncontrollably even without desperation because you're moving the external sphincter while manually contracting the bladder. I dont know where this would be for girls, probably right at the pee hole...ill have to do some experimenting with that 😈. Apparently peeing just in case is bad for the bladder so I'll also just go to the bathroom or wet my diaper even when i dont even feel anything. It probably atrophies the bladder. .So yeah thats all ive done and its worked amazingly, I love actually needing my diapers and having that fear of having accidents! I haven't had any luck yet with stress incontinence though - that's peeing when scared, laughing, running, and sneezing. But im working on laughing instead of pushing when going to the bathroom, so maybe that'll allow me to lose control while watching comedy and horror movies 😬

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