This Is Literally So Me Coded 🪽🍰

Hi! I'm LovelyLavDolly, but you can call me dolly for short ♡

I am currently 20 years old and I made this blog as a way to both express my nerdy, alternative, & girly interests, to find my personal style(s), my personal image branding, manifestation, affirmations, & mental & physical self improvement, so almost all of my posts & reblogs revolve around this as I want to make & reblog posts with intention ♡

A little bit about me!

My signs are pisces sun, aries moon & scorpio rising

My favorite colors are purple, pink, silver, gold, black, chocolate brown, olive & pistachio green & cherry& muted red ( you will see all of these colors a lot on my blog but especially light purple since thats my most fav and light pink lol)

Least favorite color: orange (I do think it can be a pretty color especially when paired with other colors like pink, but this color in particular doesn't look all that great on me, but i can learn how to style it via playing w/ undertones!)

Some aesthetics that I'm into: hime gyaru fashion, agejo gyaru fashion, himekaji fashon, jojifuku fashion, yume & yami kawaii fashion, larme-kei fashion, 2000s fashion, girly j-fashon in general, Harajuku fashion, romantic goth fashion, Lolita fashion, hyper-femmine fashion, bimbo fashion, kawaii fashion, kawaii-kei fashion, rongosta fashion, girly-kei fashion, y2k fashion, Chinese fashion, emo, scene & scenecore fashion, pastel goth, alternative fashion, y2k makeup, doujyn makeup, hime gyaru makeup, dolly makeup, hyper-feminine makeup, scenecore makeup, pastel goth makeup, 90s makeup, alternative makeup & much more

Some hobbies that I'm into or want to get into: drawing, cooking cute & healthy recipes, sewing, cosplay, costume making, figurine collecting, comic book collecting, charm & kandi bracelet making, gaming, walking/jogging, plushies collecting, upcycling clothes, redecorating shoes, animating, mixed media art, fashion magazine collecting, dancing, & much more

(All images that aren't reblogs are from pintrest, or screenshotted/saved from somewhere else on the internet unless stated otherwise ♡)

(may edit this post to tell more about myself later as time goes on)

Here is my pinterest ♡ https://pin.it/4PVYumLyl

eating in regards to each phase you’re in can be extremely beneficial to how you feel, how your symptoms are and how your body functions.

Becoming Her: You're Already There!

And how do I know this? Because for years, I was my own biggest bully. Healing that part of me is something I'm learning to do one day at a time.

Last night, I had a really good journaling sess for the first time in a while. It hit me: I already am everything I desire to be. I already am my higher self, even if this current "reality" — the 3D — isn’t showing it yet. And so are you!

You might say this way of thinking is "delulu" or "faking it till you make it," which is maaaybe a little true. But your mind literally shapes your perspective.

Example: I could walk up to you right now and compliment your hairstyle. To me, it's one of the coolest things I've seen today — but if you’re not happy with it, you might ignore or brush off my compliment.

You made “my hair sucks” part of your reality, your "truth" — even though no one has bashed your hair.

No one can shape your world/truth unless you let them.

You're in full control of how you react, the career you choose, the pants you wear. You're also in full control of any limitations or beliefs you’ve picked up — whether from yourself or from others.

If someone says you look better in red, that doesn't make it a fact. It doesn't mean every other color suddenly looks bad on you. That’s their perception of you — their world. If you feel like you look better in blue, then you do. Because it’s your world, and you said so.

You say your dream self is kindhearted, soft, confident, healthy — mentally and physically. Okay, now stop imagining a gap between that version and the you now. There’s no gap anymore.

From here on out, no matter what the 3D shows, you are who you just described. Each day and every action — you become softer. You set your first boundary. You feel more at peace because you journaled or meditated this week. And you might think, "This is only the beginning. I’m not there yet."

Thing is, you are.

You’re doing what your higher self would do. You’re shifting.

No matter what your current beliefs are, you have all the power to rewrite them. You made your old beliefs "true," so you can make new ones true too.

And yes, it's absolutely going to feel like lying to yourself at first. But if you've believed in one thing for years, of course it may take just as many to believe in another.

No one's perception of you is you. YOU know who you are.

You shape your reality.

And I wholeheartedly believe that you and I are already everything we need to be — we're just now learning to see it.

xo, Kay 🪽

Dolly's guide to a bimbolicious summer pt 1

i've had this guide in my notes for a while mainly for personal use but i was inspired by @honeytonedhottie to post it ♡

Rules

Do not leave the house without looking your best- One of the worst feelings is going out and feeling uncomfortable in your own skin. Look good, feel good.

Be Hot First, Worry Later- No matter how hard we try to deny it, looks do matter, and they can be armor. That doesn’t mean you need a full beat. Applying some lip gloss, focusing on skincare, and making sure your hair is done is more than enough.

Hygiene hygiene hygiene- Who doesn’t want to smell & look amazing? When you take care of yourself, your body shows it.

Confidence is non negotiable- Being confident doesn’t mean being loud. It means trusting yourself and your decisions. You're not easily influenced by others, even if you don’t consider yourself confident yet, walk like it, talk like it, act like it and eventually, you will become it.

Don't ever apologize for being feminine- Femininity is power, not weakness. It allows you to be your most authentic and vulnerable self. Try naming a weak feminine woman...you can’t. But strong ones? I could list so many.

Keep it cute- Be sweet always, but don’t let anyone walk all over you. Be tough when the time calls for it.

I could totally see me doing something like this with one of those protein whipped Greek yogurt recipes! Anybody else see the vision?

Pretty Poodle 🎀🐩 and Pretty Kitty 🎀🐆

As black woman we all need to try auburn hair atleast once in our lives. 😍😍😍😍

ᡴꪫ ﹙ELEGANT HEART DIVIDERS.﹚─── purple place

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