They Don't Call Them Crab Rangoons For Nothing. I Mean Look At Their Wanton Little Bodies, Their Crispy

Zoo Wee Mama

It will never not hurt to hear your close friends talk about men like they're the scum of the earth, like they know every man. And when you give them the look, like "what about me" they say "oh of course I didn't mean you". Of course they didn't.

Idk what trans man needs to hear this but you're NOT evil or disgusting for being a man. You do NOT have to suffer for the sins of the patriarchy committed by cis dudes. Being a man doesn't invalidate the misogyny you experienced growing up or experience now. Being a man doesn't mean you deserve to be isolated. Being a man doesn't mean you're inherently predatory or scary. You didn't "choose" this, and finding your true self is NOT "betraying the community" because you happen to be a man and/or masculine rather than a woman and/or feminine. You ARE allowed to be upset when people "affirm" your gender by malgendering you.

You DO deserve a community that uplifts you. You DO deserve to experience trans joy. You DO deserve to have your voices heard and your struggles recognized. Wanting the bare minimum of solidarity is NOT "making everything about trans men".

reblog if people r allowed to send u asks as if theyre ur friend. wanna tell me how ur day went? do it!!! ask me for advice? sure! ask a personal question? go right on ahead!

From what I've seen on tumblr, queer longing and queer belonging are two sides of the same coin and some people just flip it a lot more than others and sometimes it's a weighted coin so it's not a 50/50 chance that it's gonna land on either one but of course sometimes the coin lands right in the middle does that make sense??

It's okay to grieve for someone you hated, even if you're glad they're gone. It's okay to miss someone you hoped would leave your life for good when they're finally gone forever. It's okay to miss those good moments, especially if they're so small in a sea of so many bad memories. And, hey, it's okay if you're grieving for someone that they never got to become it's okay it's okay trust me it's okay

Man I need a mutual who can converse with me in simple German because deise Sprache ist nicht einfach when you don't have anyone to practice with let me tell you man

Me clinging to soulsborne games in my time of need...Yes, dying repeatedly to the same bosses will be the perfect medicine I just know it

you're the only one who understands me mr strobbery

how it feels to stop tossing and turning and get up to piss

me impatiently to the little french cat boiling me in a stew: chat am I cooked