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To be held like that ....

Okay but allowing subs to perform oral as a form of reward is so hot. You’ve been good so I will allow you to pleasure me, and you’re gonna thank me

I really, really want to ... take my time.

I want to strip him nude, and lay across his legs, and fondle him.

Stroke, squeeze, tease ... I want to take in the sight, sound, and smell of him as he becomes steadily more aroused. I want to praise, encourage, and coax.

Kiss the tender tip of his cock when it seeps precum. Press my lips on the underside of his cock with it twitches and rub my swollen lips over it, wetting it with my saliva until he's shiny. Lick the tip of his cock slowly, teasingly in circles until his legs buck underneath me. Palm his balls tenderly, and wet them with my tongue.

I want to make it last, because I crave it. I want to savor each sensation. And when his sweet whines and moans turn to sincere entreaty-

Please. Please stroke it. Suck. Let me come, please. Make me come-

When I can feel his need in my bones, I'll straddle his face amd show him what the game has done to me.

Then, maybe I might fulfill his wish. Or maybe, I might take him out to lunch, still half-hard and needy.

So damn hot

“When you do take the trouble to point out that you are, in fact, bisexual - that no matter whether you are with a man or a woman you will always have the potential to go either way - people look at you with scepticism, confusion, disbelief, or perhaps even envy. Their faces say this: you’re lying to yourself, it’s just a phase, you don’t know what you want, you’re letting the side down, you’re greedy, you don’t exist. But you do exist. Here you are.”

- Chitra Ramaswamy, The Bi-ble: an anthology of personal essays and narratives about bisexuality

“Bisexuality… is a permanent state of flux, a liminal space where you can be either/or, but you can also be neither/nor…

You have chosen (or, if you prefer, been chosen by) an unfixed, untitled, and shape-shifting identity. One that by definition resists categorisation. Instead it commands flexibility, restlessness, the endless possibility of change.”

- Chitra Ramaswamy, The Bi-ble: an anthology of personal essays and narratives about bisexuality

“We all suffer oppression when we choose to express homosexual desire. We may suffer even more when we force ourselves to repress it. And although the experiences differ, we suffer whether, as with bisexuals, our desire might take other paths or whether, as with homosexuals, the only path is total repression. In each of these cases, our suffering results from the power of a homophobic society. We all share an interest in assuring that bisexuals make their choices, conscious or not, on the basis of desire rather than oppression. And gay liberation offers the only guarantee that this will happen.”

- Lisa Orlando, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out

“But if it rejects us, the gay movement loses more than numbers and strategic force. It also loses another opportunity, similar to that offered by other “sexual minorities,” to re-examine its commitment to sexual freedom rather than to mere interest-group politics. What would it mean for the gay movement to acknowledge that some people experience their sexuality as a lifelong constant, others as a series of stages, some as a choice, and many as a constant flux? It would certainly mean a drastic reworking of the standard categories which have grounded gay politics over the last decade. And it might mean a renewed commitment to the revolutionary impulse of gay liberation, which, believing that homosexual desire is a potential in everyone, insisted that “gay” is a potentially universal class, since sexual freedom for all people is the ultimate goal of our struggle.”

- Lisa Orlando, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out

“(Bisexual) stereotypes result from the ambiguous position of bisexuals, poised as we are between what currently appear as two mutually exclusive sexual cultures, one with the power to exercise violence repression against the other.”

- Lisa Orlando, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out

“Many of us feel threatened when the categories we believe in are challenged, especially if they shape our sense of who we are. Not only do bisexuals contradict a primary set of cultural categories - our culture calls us “decadent” because we refuse to play by the rules, thereby undermining the social “order” - but we challenge many people’s personal sense of what constitutes sexual identity. Whether we threaten by introducing a third category or by undermining the notion of categories altogether, we cause enough discomfort that many people deny our existence.”

- Lisa Orlando, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out

Sweet tongues duel

“I don’t like gay and lesbian people’s ignorance about bisexuals. It’s rare to find a politically savvy bisexual person who isn’t involved in the gay and lesbian community, but many gays and lesbians have no knowledge of bisexual people. We’re still laughed at, trivialized, seen as purveyors of disease, seen as riding on the coattails of the gay rights movement, as if we weren’t there all along.

To me, these attitudes toward us come from ignorance and self-hatred. If somebody feels really good about who they are, they don’t feel threatened by what other people are…

Heading and saying “gay, lesbian, and bisexual” is music to my ears. Because the more unity we achieve, the more we put aside petty differences, the more strength we have.”

- Dr Maggi Rubenstein, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out

“It’s one thing to be bisexual and quite another to live as a bisexual person, to make that space in the world for yourself every day, to consciously work to blend those feelings and relationships. It’s a real charge… when I can do it.”

- Billy Jones, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out

“For too long I allowed society, people, and institutions to take away big chunks of my life and happiness. Who the hell are these people anyway?

The truth is, I have a multitude of choices. I have my likes and dislikes, loves and turn-ons, hatreds and heart-throbs. I will never be pressured into giving up my heart and my lust and my unique self again. I’m back in my life and sharing my love.”

- Paul Haut, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out

“As bisexuals we have to create a safe supportive atmosphere in our lives. We have to sometimes ask for it from people we don’t know, and yes, demand it from people who love and respect us. How can we feel secure or have self-respect if we are closeted from our friends and allies? How else do we change the stereotypes and the media image? How else do we get the respect we deserve if we are hiding from it? What does our community look like? We are the ones who must define it.”

- Loraine Hutchins and Lani Ka’ahumanu, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out

“Most of our lives are played out on the middle ground. To recognize this doesn’t mean that it is better or worse. This space in between gives us valuable information and, when recognized in relation to the absolute extremes, it helps communicate our various realities to each other. As those of us who don’t believe in the walls and fences join forces and speak out about our lives, the middle ground reminds everyone that we are part of the whole. And yes, this whole contains important extremes, but it is the vast expense of gray areas where most of us live.”

- Loraine Hutchins and Lani Ka’ahumanu, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out

“I am married and monogamous. Not much of a bisexual you say. Yet my bisexuality influences my perception and my decisions. More than having sexual relations with both genders, bisexuality is a mind frame, a reference point from which to view the world. Being bisexual has more to do with potential than actuality.”

- Amanda Yoshizaki, Bi Any Other Name: Bisexual People Speak Out

“To some extent most men, straight or gay, aren’t interested in what women like. Maybe gay men, because they sleep with men, think they no longer have to think about women’s sexuality. So maybe when they go to a club, and there are lesbians there who are very openly sexual… some think it’s disgusting, but a lot of others might find it erotic… I think women are more interested in male sexuality than men are interested in women’s.”

- ‘Hilary’, quoted by Nicola Field, Bisexual Horizons: Politics, Histories, Lives