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A very common theme we’re hearing from partners on both sides of the relationship is the challenge of going 24/7 or even just trying to make diaper wearing the default.

We experienced this too so have put together a list of the many ways we’ve experienced exceptions to wearing/using diapers happening and how to overcome them.

Preventing exceptions with 24/7 and no toilet rules

Keeping your partner in diapers 24/7 and banning the use of the toilet sounds simple and clean-cut in theory but the reality is day-to-day life throws up lots of exceptions and inconveniences which make sticking to this hard.

Sticking to it as closely as possible is critical though as one exception leads to another and then extremely quickly it all falls apart. So here are some common challenges you might get and how to deal with them.

I need a #2 but I’ve just changed into a fresh diaper

Unfortunately your partner should have gone in their last diaper and if they need to go now then they have to just use their clean one. Wasting clean diapers shouldn’t be encouraged so hold off changing them for at least 2 hours.


I’m going for a run / playing sport

Very active sports and running is challenging while diapered but not impossible. We’d recommend allowing them to wear a thin breathable diaper or a pull-up for the duration. Once finished, they should be straight back into a proper diaper, don’t allow this to be a way for them to get extended time out of diapers.


We’re going out and changing will be inconvenient

Being out of the house or on a day trip is not an excuse for them to be out of diapers. Pack a diaper bag and if you think changing will be hard dress them in a thick diaper for the day. Also encourage them to use their diaper for a #2 before you leave.
Help give them confidence by picking out clothes which hide their diaper well and telling them how you can’t even tell (even if that’s a slight lie).

We’re going to be at the beach/pool all day

If they’re going to be primarily in the water then dress them in a swim diaper. If it will be sun bathing with an occasional swim, then dress them in a disposal diaper with refastenable tapes which will allow it to be taken off easily for them to change into a swim diaper and back again afterwards.


I don’t have time to check / change you as much today

Easy solution = thick diapers + booster if required. These will hold them for 6+ hours without you or them having to do a change. Also allow them to change themselves by asking for permission over a message first if you can’t change them yourself.

They’re not feeling well

When your partner is ill, then diapers should still be insisted upon. Use thick diapers and plastic pants to avoid leaks and change them / let them change more often to avoid rashes.


Someone might notice

If your going for a meal or drinks with friends or any other activity where they’ll be self-conscious about being noticed, still insist on a diaper but do the following to help. Let them wear a thiner medical diaper, have them wear a plain onesie and help them pick out clothes which hide the diaper well. Finally make sure to tell them that you can’t tell and give reassurance.
Over time as their confidence builds switch to thicker diapers.

What if it smells?

You might be out of the house, on vacation or travelling when they have the need to go #2. It would be easier for everyone just to let them use a toilet but you must avoid this. 
Instead tell them that they have to use their diaper but it’s ok and that’s what they’re for. Make arrangements for them to be able to change afterwards but this doesn’t need to be immediately.
Using internal deodorant tablets like Devrom can reduce the smell significantly so we recommend using these more aggressively around vacations, day trips or travel where messy diapers in public is a more likely situation.

Extending time around exceptions

You might allow diaper free exceptions for work or around family but the danger is this extends for long periods either side. Make sure that after returning from work you’re there to diaper them or if you’re not free, leave a diaper out with instructions for them to change into it straight away.
Or if say you’re at a family event and staying overnight, still change them into a diaper for bedtime.
If you’re traveling back from a family event and the travel time is more than an hour stop at the first opportunity and have him get diapered.


I’m out of diapers

It sounds obvious but accidentally running out of diapers can cause a big gap in their wearing as you really don’t want to have to switch to store diapers.
Make sure to keep track of your diaper stock and I’d recommend always having a 1 month buffer of diapers available.
The easiest time to run out is when away from home or on vacation. Make sure to plan how many you’ll need and then add a good buffer of extra diapers.

Hus arbeid bekledin

Heute Nachmittag kam ein Paket an. Meine Freundin zu mir: Mach es auf, es ist für dich. Als ich es geöffnet hatte, war ich zu erst etwas schockiert. Meine Gedanken waren, hoffentlich bekomme ich diese Dinger nie angezogen, da ich die von Bekannten DL's schon kenne und gleichzeitig, wann steckt sie mich da rein. 😱 Sie meinte nur, freu dich nicht zu früh, ein zweites Paket für dich ist noch Unterwegs, das wird ein schönes Weihnachten werden. Das wäre dann alles für mich, wenn ich am Wochenende mal wieder bockig bin oder sie einfach mal wieder eine Stunde ihre Ruhe haben möchte. Einen gewindelten Freund kann man halt nicht bei allen Sachen gebrauchen. 😅 Man muss dazu wirklich wissen, mein Schatz macht die Wäsche, Putzt das Haus, füttert die Hunde und geht Gassi (gut, ich auch), usw. 🙈

Total No-Limits Slave Contract

Of my own free will and out of a desire to express my love and devotion to the man I love and adore, I offer myself in slavery to my Master for life, beginning on __________

I will devote myself completely and totally to the pleasure and desires of my Master, without hesitation or consideration of myself or others.

General Provisions

The slave agrees to obey its Master in all respects. Its mind, body, heart and time belong to Him.

The slave shall keep its body available for the use of its Master at all times. In addition, the slave agrees that its Master possesses the right to determine whether others can use its body and what use they may put it to. The slave shall demonstrate its acceptance of its role of service and availability at all times while at home and at other times and places specified by its Master. 

The slave will answer any questions put to it honestly and directly, and will volunteer any information its Master should know about its physical or emotional condition. While its Master expects His slave to speak honestly and forth rightly about anything that bothers it, the slave is not to interpret that as permission to whine or complain. It will phrase its concerns politely and respectfully, and then gracefully accept its Master’s judgment in these matters without further complaint.

The slave will always speak of its Master in terms of love and respect. It will address him at all times as either “Master” or “Sir” (see Public Rules of Conduct).

The slave agrees that severe punishment may be assessed for any infraction of the letter or spirit of the contract, and will accept the correction gratefully. The form and extent of the punishment shall be at the Master’s pleasure, and the Master shall make it clear to the slave that she is being punished when punishment occurs. The Master may endeavor not inflict physical harm upon the slave that might require the attention of anyone outside the relationship. 

As the sole owner of the slave’s physical body, The master has the right to modify the slave’s body or appearance in any way, including but not limited to, multiple piercings, tattoos, scarification, implants and branding, and even amputation. Slave will not be informed in advance which modification is to take place. All modifications will be done without anesthetic. The slave shall have no right to refuse any such modifications and will offer its skin and body parts willingly and gratefully for transformation. 

The slave enjoys the right to cry, scream or beg, but accepts the fact that these heartfelt expressions will not affect its treatment. Further, it accepts that if its Master tires of its noise, he may gag it or take other actions to silence it.

The slave is permitted to engage in any and all activities not actively forbidden by the contract or by later edict of the Master. All rights and privileges not otherwise noted in this contract belong to the Master, and He may exercise them as He chooses.

Private Rules of Conduct

On days when its Master is at work, the slave will greet Him wearing its collar, wrist restraints, and a shirt belonging to its Master. It will wear no underclothes in His presence unless given permission. On days when the Master is home, the slave will wear whatever is deemed appropriate by its Master. When in the same room as its Master, the slave will ask permission before leaving the room, explain where it is going, and why. At mealtimes, the slave will serve its Master, and sit at His feet while He eats. Food for the slave will be given by the Master at His discretion. When speaking to its Master or being spoken to by Him, the slave will assume a demeanor of alert attention and will meet its Master’s eyes directly, unless instructed to do otherwise.

The slave will serve as a waste receptacle for its master. The slave agrees to accept and consume any food or beverage waste the Master chooses to discard. 

The slave accepts all health risks related to second-hand cigarette smoke. The slave will at all times allow its master to use its mouth as an ashtray. Fully trained, the slave will pay attention to the growing ash at the burning end of the cigarette, before requesting that its master feed it to the slave. The Master should never have to ask the slave to open its mouth to receive ashes and butts, except in the early stages of training. The master may, at his sole discretion, be kind enough to extinguish smoking materials before discarding them in the slave’s mouth. The slave, however, accepts that the Master may want to take amusement or pleasure in the pain inflicted by extinguishing cigarettes in its mouth. The slave accepts that the Master reserves the right, for His own entertainment and amusement, to place cigarette ashes and butts into food or beverage to be consumed by the slave. The slave will also consume and ingest its master’s urine and feces when required to do so.

The Master may require the slave to do household chores. The slave shall complete such chores in a manner satisfactory to the Master, without reservation, without regard to comfort, and without expectation of payment.

Public Rules of Conduct

The slave will conduct itself at all times in such a manner as to not call attention to Master and slave. It will call its Master by His name only if the use of “Master” is inappropriate. The slave will defer to its Master in public. The slave may dress itself, but must seek approval of any clothing it wishes to wear in public.

Full Consent Statement of Slave

I, _______________ accept that I shall be placed in and kept under strict discipline without time limit.

I, _______________ accept any form of punishment meted out to me while under discipline.

I, _______________ accept any form of restraint without time limit.

I, _______________ accept any form of chastisement, administered in any way with any instrument.

I, _______________ accept actual imprisonment, including additional physical restraints which may be necessary to use on my body during such imprisonment, and without limit of time.

I, _______________ accept that all sex with my Master is consensual at all times. I accept sexual use and abuse of my body while under discipline for any purpose.

I, _______________ accept that the various forms of torment to which I am to be subjected may cause suffering to an acute level. I further acknowledge that my Master may use my body or mind in any manner He wishes. I wish it to be known through this document I fully consent to any such suffering and that it may be prolonged, and under no circumstances do I wish to know any release date on my training program. I also accept that the application of suffering and torment is not required to be part of any training or discipline program, but may be inflicted by my Master solely for His own entertainment and pleasure.

I, _______________ accept that I will be made to eat and consume food waste, cigarette ashes, cigarette butts, urine, and feces.

I, _______________ accept that there are health risks to this arrangement, including but not limited to, exposure to second-hand cigarette smoke, permanent injury due to prolonged restraint and torment, and illness, possibly fatal, from the consumption of human waste.

I, _______________ accept that I am subject to the absolute rule of the Master and those to whom he delegates that rule. 

I, _______________ accept that half of my role as a slave is to accept all discipline and suffering inflicted on me by my master and the other half of my role is to actively arouse His sadistic desire to inflict suffering on me. To this end, subtle rebellion is therefore expected of me, and lack of it taken to the point of docility is likely to terminate this contract.

I, _______________ accept that no form of disobedience will be tolerated when in the company of my Master, other Masters or slaves and that I must conduct myself precisely as instructed on each specific occasion.

I, _______________ accept that I remain under the disciplinary code imposed by this contract at all times and I am bound by its terms and conditions in all situations, whether closely supervised or not.

I, _______________ accept that any plans I have made for my future are hereby surrendered. My master has the sole power to determine my purpose and fate.

I, _______________ accept that nothing in this contract implies there shall be a safe word or limits, hard or soft. These will be at the sole discretion of my master, who may or may not choose to implement them.

I _________________________, do set my signature to this document of my own free will, thus becoming the property of ___________________________, in full understanding that I will be used for any sexual, disciplinary, amusement, or labor purpose, and that I will be subjected to acute torment and suffering, limited solely by my Master’s imagination and desired level of entertainment.

SIGNED: _____________________________________ slave

SIGNED: _____________________________________ Master

PASSWORD: _________________ ACCEPTED [ ] REFUSED [ ]

Final Signature of Owner ________________________________________

Date ____________________