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Diaper Time
Y'all didn't think I was gonna put out that potty propaganda and not refute it! Here's a song all about how diapers are the best! Make sure to sing along, stinker. đŠ
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This Saturdayâs Baby Day
Yesterday I decided it would be good for my baby to have what we call a âBaby Dayâ. We talk about these a bit on our website but I thought you all might enjoy hearing what one looked like for us which was prompted by one of our Tumblr friends asking about it anyway.
The quick intro to a Baby Day is itâs a full 24 hour period where he is treated nearly exactly like a baby. We find they are great for stress relief and easy to do on a free weekend day every month or so. I decide when they happen so theyâre always a surprise for him and although theyâre quite a lot of work for me, I do find it sort of fun having to care for him and play more of a real mommy role for a day.
So for us we always start it in the morning where I tell him Iâve decided heâs getting a baby day today. He woke up at around 10am so I told him and he said ok (he can object but only if he has a good reason to why itâs not possible). He knows the rules of a baby day now so we didnât need to go through them but for your benefit the key elements are:
- Thick ABDL diapers for the next 24/7
- No toilet usage (normal for him anyway)
- No walking or talking with adult words
- Baby clothes & pacifier in most of the time
- Iâll take care of his every need (bottles to drink, meals, checks, changes, etc)
I let him take off his night diaper and go for a shower and when he returns Iâm ready with a little kings diaper. I change him into that and dress him in a cute dino onesie. His hands go into locking padded mittens and today he also gets spiked training booties making sure he has to crawl.
Finally he gets 2 ducolax tablets, his first bottle of the day containing milk, and a pacifier. This is a normal adult sized one but if I find him without it in we do have a gag version as well. I like using ducolax tablets on baby days as we find the impact and timing of them varies so unlike suppositories itâs less predictable and more a babylike loss of control.
He then crawls into our living room and I put the TV on for him. Itâs kids tv for him but as heâs not very regressive itâs normally more elementary/tween tv which I allow. I also leave another bottle of water with him which he must drink by lunchtime (1pm).
I leave him be and catch up on some laundry (boring I know). At lunch I call him through to the kitchen, help him onto a chair and place a bib around his neck. This meal is going to be baby food and I feed it to him just like a baby, itâs actually kind of fun especially making him a bit messy and teasing him. He doesnât enjoy it so after 2-3 pouches weâre done. He must also finish a whole bottle of water before he can leave.
After lunch I do a diaper check and itâs wet but nowhere near capacity. He returns to the living room but I do allow him 3 hours of adult game time on his playstation. So the mittens come off so he can do this. I set a timer on my phone for 1 hour and use this to remind me to go check him. By around 3:30 itâs time for a change as Iâm not sure his diaper will last another hour.
We have a dedicated changing table but as itâs a crawl away and heâs just wet I change him on the living room floor. He gets a new bottle of water and has 1 hour of gaming left so I leave him to that.
At 4:30 I come through and tell him itâs time for his afternoon nap. He has a crib which we use for this and Segufix restraints which I use to secure him in place. Lights out for the next hour, Iâm not sure if he sleeps but when I return I can tell that the ducolax have been working đ
I check his diaper even though itâs not required and unlock him from the crib. He uses Devrom tablets so the smell isnât very bad but it is noticeable so I add some plastic pants over his diapers. We have a rule that he has to stay in filled diapers for 1 hour after I detect it which is especially important after ducolax as often there can be a few waves đŠ
TV is on again but this time I watch as well, itâs amazingly engaging. Heâs on the floor and I do hear him âuseâ his diaper some more đ
Itâs probably about 6pm now and itâs time to freshen him up. Itâs over to the changing table this time and I get to work. His diaper is well used but I have disposable gloves and in less than 5 minutes heâs completely clean and into a dry Little Kings.
I leave him to his own devices while I make the evening meal. This time he still has the bib and I feed him but itâs adult food. Iâm eating as well so this time itâs less playful so mine doesnât get too cold.
After dinner we watch some Netflix shows together, during which I feed him a bottle of milk, before itâs his bedtime at 10pm. Diaper check reveals a fairly wet diaper and Iâm 50:50 about changing him but instead opt to just add a cloth diaper cover and plastic pants on top. Heâs again restrained in the crib and I go back to watching TV.
I check on him at about 1am and heâs fast asleep.
The next morning I get up early around 7:30am and go through and wake him up. On baby days I expect him to be messy in the mornings but heâs not. By releasing the straps on one side I get him to spin over exposing his diaper bum. Pulling down the diaper I can insert a suppository (using a disposable glove) before I secure him back in the crib.
I read my book in bed and speak to a few people on here before letting him out at 10am, completing the full 24 hours.
And that is a baby day, it sounds like a lot of effort but I feel like I still get most of my day free, I enjoy caring for him and theyâre good for his mental health so overall itâs well worth it.
We would love to hear in the comments if any of you also have baby days with your partners and what you do/donât do differently?
bad boy
bar and visit a friend where he got tena maxi and 4 extras and anal plug clean pants and lock pants over which he even got wet nail boots with lock but the fashion he was wearing when he got home so now you sit here locked and have to crawl if you don't will hurt until 1600 when he gets a shift
Fun in rain gear on an August evening in Tampere, Finland.
Mikeyâs Guide to Unpotty Training
My Guide to Unpotty Training
Today I want to share the tricks and tips I used to unpotty train myself. Keep in mind that some things will being to work almost immediately (3-4 days), while others will take weeks, months or even years.
So if you are ready to be a diaper wearing little boy like me, hereâs how to start.
1) Make the commitment. From here onwards you will only wear diapers. When I made this decision myself years ago I opened my dresser drawer and took out all of cartoon briefs and tightie whities (I never did wear âbig boyâ underwear). I then took my scissors and cut up my underoes so all I was left with was a pile of cotton rags. I quickly got myself padded up before I could change my mind, put on some pants and took my destroyed underwear to the trash, telling myself that I will NEVER wear underwear again.
2. From here onwards you can only wear diapers at all times. Regardless of where you are or what the occasion, unpotty training requires you to wear diapers at all times, 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. The moment you put on that big boy underwear and use that potty all that training you did will be destroyed. It takes a great degree of effort to convince your body that it is okay to just let go whenever and wherever. Potty training and all those years of using the potty have created a very strong learned behaviour.
3). Drink lots of water and juice throughout the day, this will keep you bladder full and make it much easier to practice uncontrolled wetting. It is also important to drink two bottles of juice or water within one hour of bedtime. This will help ensure you have to wet throughout the night.
4) Now for the unpotty training. Wet as soon as you feel it, DO NOT hold it. You want to train you body to just âreleaseâ on its on. I repeat NEVER HOLD IT. By holding it you are strengthening the bladder, rather then weakening it. Itâs a muscle that needs training, so ensure you are constantly training it to relax. It is not initially possible to âignoreâ the conscious awareness of needing to wet, but by telling yourself to relax and âlet it happenâ you will find your subconscious, the part that actually keep your from wetting yourself and controls the autonomous behaviour responses, will begin to accept and adopt the new patterns and responses until you do just void unconsciously. A few days to a week of unconscious natural voiding and you will be wetting and messing just like a little baby. Continue rewarding yourself mentally for being such a good baby, and wetting and messing yourself naturally and easily, and you will never feel ashamed or humiliated or embarrassed about what you now can do. Unpotty training is a combination of both physical and mental training.
5) Night-time wetting will take FOREVER. So have patience. Go to bed every night with a full bladder. Falling asleep with a bottle or sippy cup of water works great. Since you went to bed with a full bladder you will likely wake up and at some point and need to pee. Try to picture yourself remaining asleep as you wet, and âpretendâ you are still sleeping. After you wet your diaper, relax again, and picture this happening while you sleep soundly, contentedly, and happily. Soon this is exactly how it will happen. It may take a few months [my experience] for you to sleep soundly through the night, and to wet naturally in your sleep. You may find yourself waking a while after you have wet, or just as you are wetting, but ignore it, and keep your eyes closed and fall back asleep. Remind yourself how wonderful it feels and fall asleep sucking your pacifier and hugging your teddy bear.
6) Remember what you are doing is potty training in reverse, so have patience. It took time to become potty trained in the first place and more important it is something you have been doing for decades, so it will take patience and time to unpotty train. Continue to reward and reinforce the âgood, niceâ sensations of wetting (and messing) and you will soon teach your body that it is okay to be a diaper boy.
And this here is how I became diaper dependent. But I have some bad news. Potty training is like learning to ride a bicycle, itâs something you never forget. In your subconscious you will still have that âpotty trainingâ, but this is a way to override that training and enjoying being in diapers 24/7. If you want something that is 100% effective surgery or a catheter is the only way to go. But for this little boy itâs 100% natural unpotty training for now.
The Big Book of Little Boy Behaviors: 42 Quirks You Can't Resist
1. That teddy bear Harvey is his beloved, can't-leave-home-without-it security companion. But he'll still get pouty if his trusty stuffed doggo, Pongo, doesn't tag along for adventures too!
2. Of course mommy's fuzzy socks, oversized gaming tees and comfy pajama pants are way cooler than his own little boy clothes. He'll want to swamp himself in her big cozy oversized outfits.
3. Chocolate ice cream absolutely qualifies as a balanced breakfast in his little book, no matter how much mommy argues against it. But he'll happily settle for dino-shaped nuggets if you insist!
4. Nighttime medicine is an epic battle of wills. "No no no! I don't wanna take it, mommy!" may get stubbornly repeated for an hour or more until you finally distract him with kisses and silly baby talk.
5. That longing look says it all when a new stuffed animal, action figure, or Marvel toy catches his eye at the store, even if he's too shy to directly ask. Of course, a new plushie or collectable joins his proud stash!
6. Be prepared for many, many Bluey binges, but you'd better make room for endless rewatches of his beloved Marvel shows, movies, and gaming adventures too.
7. Closet doors must stay open at all times to display the lack of monsters within. Feeling safe and secure in his little headspace is so important.
8. At dinnertime, you'll likely have a cuddly velcro-baby lapwarmer who wants to stay nice and snuggly close during meals. He may even insist on wearing just his crinkly diaper to the table!
9. That irresistible pouty lip can't be ignored - it requires immediate smoochy kisses and relentless tickle attacks to neutralize it into a smile.
10. Taco shortages are legitimately catastrophic events! Quick, an emergency run to Taco Bell to assess if the shortage is just in this house or the whole neighborhood.
11. He'll probably fake getting shampoo in his eyes during bathtime (even if you're so careful) just as an excuse to earn extra mommy kisses, cuddles and babytalk.
12. Choosing his dinner is a dramatic ritual - he won't voice any preference, just nodding or shaking his head until finally the magic words "dino nuggets and mac & cheese" make him light up.
13. A pacifier should always be within reach, you truly never know when an urgent need for suckling comfort will strike this intense little baby.
14. His drink preferences are very particular - ice cold apple juice, refreshing milk, and maybe the occasional Juicy Juice box are the only approved baby beverages.
15. He requires full body massages and gentle rubs for relaxation - back, shoulders, legs, tummy, head pats, and even slow diaper changes with tender booty rubs!
16. Some nights it's soft cuddly Disney footed pajamas, other nights he'll refuse and insist on being in just a cozy crinkly diaper and gaming t-shirt for max little space comfort.
17. Requests to visit zoos, aquariums, Disney World - anywhere with amazing animals and worlds of imagination - will be frequent, intense demands.
18. When the grown-up world feels overwhelming, that's when mommy's healing hugs, reassuring presence and infinite patience are most crucial for him to recharge in little space.
19. His boundless little energy makes getting this perpetual motion machine to sit still for any length of time downright impossible! Expect lots of wiggling and redirecting.
20. Some days the grown-up stuff is just too much, and he can't pull himself away from his cozy weighted blanket nest. On those days, prioritize extra snuggles, gentle hand-feediing, postponing big kid tasks, and an all-day soothing movie marathon cuddlefest.
21. While most littles love basic bubbly baths, your prince prefers the full luxurious spa experience - lots of bubbles, his whole rubber ducky squad, maybe even a splashtastic pirate ship for imaginary aquatic adventures!
22. Storytime can't just be any book - he'll repeatedly request animated readings of his favorite Marvel superhero epics or delving into the wizarding world of Harry Potter. Dramatic voices and impersonations are essential!
23. Singing and dancing like a baby rock star are inevitable parts of his daily groove, whether it's rocking out to classic bands like Iron Maiden and The Offspring or bopping along to more modern jams from The Editors or Mumford & Sons - as long as he can do it while diapered up!
24. While most little boys beg for a puppy, your little prince would be utterly delighted by a kitty companion to snuggle and play with, as long as it understands he needs lots of cuddle time too when he's in baby headspace.
25. Don't be surprised if he dresses up in mismatched superhero costumes over blocky plastic diaper pants or just a shirt and diapey for random periods throughout the day, creating immersive fantasy worlds in his headspace.
26. Controlling the TV remote or any household tech is a must for your lil guy. Attempting to take it may result in a passionate baby tantrum!
27. Keep multiple sensory input backups ready - from his beloved weighted blanket to a variety of stim toys, noise-canceling headphones, and a well-stocked diaper bag when overstimulation strikes.
28. Regular crafting time like coloring in just a diaper will be a huge hit - he'll eagerly create elaborate drawings to proudly show off his creativity from a littlespace mindset.
29. When struggling with big feelings, playing with kinetic sand or running his hands through textured bins may help him self-soothe and regress further into his most comforted infant headspace.
30. You may find yourself simultaneously brushing both his hair and giving gentle diaper rubs and pats as a sort of zen bedtime ritual before prayers and being all tucked in snug.
31. Spontaneous tiny tight blanket nest construction is to be expected anywhere, anytime - under the kitchen table, in the living room, at grandma's house. His own little crib or cushioned nook is a must!
32. Part of his littlespace absolutely involves long, drawn-out diaper change routines filled with squirming, kicking, and whining that mommy simply has to push through with patience and affirmation.
33. Don't be alarmed if he requests to be "nuzzled" or lifted to your chest while being changed - seeking that skin-to-skin comfort and the possibility of being breastfed is natural.
34. Speaking of which, if you're able to breastfeed him in littlespace, it will likely become his ultimate source of peace, glowing contentment, and sleepy regression. Prioritize that bond.
35. In public spaces, allow for slow transitions between upset fits back into a happy regressed state, using guilty pleasures like vending machine treats or small distracting toys.
36. Above all, validate his innocent little rhythms and mindsets. However big or small he's feeling, you'll dote on him with patient compassion.
37. Making messes is part of the baby experience! He may accidentally spill drinks, drool everywhere, or diaper leak during rambunctious playtimes. Gentle redirection is needed.
38. Mealtimes may require lots of hands-on feeding and making sonics choo-choo noises or airplane spoon deliveries to get him giggling and eating.
39. Don't be alarmed by excessive thumb-sucking or insistent pacifier demands - that self-soothing is core to his little comfort.
40. When it's time for changes, he may squirm, whine and try to distract from getting his diapey checked and rediapered. Staying patient but firm is key.
41. Struggling with any big kid skills like tying shoes or buttoning shirts will likely prompt an "I can't do it!" meltdown. Rediapering and some little time may be needed to rebuild confidence.
42. Expect random little fits of the "But I don't WANNA!" variety when you ask him to do basic tasks, get dressed, or transition activities. Ride out the tantrum storm.
43. At the end of every day, he'll no doubt insist on uppies and being rocked to sleep like an infant, perhaps while suckling a bottle or pacifier. The littlest headspaces are often strongest at night.
RULES FOR BABY
YOU ARE NOW ONLY 24 MONTHS OLD. YOU WILL DO AS ALL 24- MONTH-OLDS DO, INCLUDING USING DIAPERS, DRINKING FROM BOTTLES, EATING IN A HIGH CHAIR, AND HAVING A BABYSITTER.
1: YOU WILL NOT SPEAK LIKE A BIG BOY/GIRL
2: NO BAD WORDS
3: NEVER TOUCH YOUR DIAPERS
4: IF YOU NEED A CHANGE YOU MUST FIND AN APPROPRIATE WAY TO TELL AN ADULT USING BABY TALK
5: IF YOU DO NOT TELL AN ADULT THAT YOU HAVE SOILED OR WET YOUR DIAPER, YOU MUST WAIT UNTIL SOMEONE DOES A DIAPER CHECK
6: NEVER REMOVE YOUR CLOTHES OR CHECK YOUR DIAPERS; THAT IS DADDYâS RESPONSIBILITY
7: NEVER TOUCH YOUR NAUGHTY BITS; YOU MAY ONLY MASTURBATE BY FINGERING YOUR PUSSY
8. YOU MAY NOT CUM WITHOUT DADDYâS PERMISSION
9: NEVER FUSS OR TALK BACK TO GROWN UPS
10: WEAR WHAT YOU ARE PUT IN WITHOUT ANY COMPLAINING
11: DO NOT ATTEMPT TO HIDE ANYTHING DADDY GIVES YOU OR MAKES YOU WEAR - IN FRONT OF OTHERS OR IN PUBLIC
12: YOU WILL USE YOUR DIAPERS WHENEVER AND WHEREVER YOU NEED THEM; YOU WILL NOT HOLD YOUR PEE OR POOP TO AVOID EMBARRASSMENT
13: YOU ARE NOT TO USE THE TOILET; IF YOU ARE NOT WEARING A DIAPER YOU MUST USE THE PUP PAD
14: NEVER ENTER THE BATHROOM WITH OUT DADDY (OR YOUR BABYSITTER)
15: YOU WILL NOT FEED YOURSELF UNLESS INSTRUCTED TO DO SO; WHEN YOU DO FEED YOURSELF YOU WILL USE YOUR HANDS
16: WHEN YOUR PACI IS PUT IN IT DOES NOT COME OUT UNLESS AN ADULT TAKES IT OUT
17: YOU WILL ONLY PLAY WITH THE BABY TOYS THAT MOMMY AND DADDY GIVE TO YOU (INCLUDING CELL PHONES, AND OTHER BIG BOY/GIRL THINGS)
18: YOU WILL BE POLITE AND RESPECTFUL TO ALL ADULTS AND DO WHAT THEY TELL YOU
19: ANYONE OVER YOUR AGE (24 MONTHS) IS AN ADULT
20: YOU WILL NOT FIGHT WITH YOUR SIBLINGS
21: YOU WILL ADDRESS DADDY AS DADDY AND ALL OTHER ADULTS BY THEIR PROPER TITLE
22. YOU WILL REFER TO YOURSELF BY THE CORRECT NAME OR PRONOUN GIVEN BY YOUR BIG
23. YOU WILL NOT INTERRUPT OR SPEAK OUT OF TURN
24. YOU WILL NOT RESIST BEING DIAPERED OR CHANGED
25: YOU WILL NOT ARGUE WITH BED TIMES OR NAPS
26: BED TIME IS AT 8:00 EVERY NIGHT
27. YOU MUST HOLD AN ADULTâS HAND WHEN YOU CROSS THE STREET
28: SCHOOL WORK COMES BEFORE PLAYTIME; YOU WILL FINISH ALL YOUR WORK IN A TIMELY MANNER
29. YOU MUST TELL YOUR BIG IF YOU NEED TO STOP OR SLOW DOWN; YOU WILL USE THE AGREED UPON SIGNALS AND SAFE WORDS WITHOUT HESITATION IF YOU NEED TO
30. YOU MAY NOT WANDER OFF, YOU WILL HOLD AN ADULTâS HAND AT ALL TIMES IN PUBLIC
31. YOU MAY NOT BE IN A ROOM ALONE WITHOUT BEING IN A CRIB, A HIGHCHAIR, PLAYPEN OR BEING OTHERWISE SECURED
32. YOU WILL NOT LIE ABOUT OR BE ASHAMED OF YOUR DIAPERS; YOU WILL BE PROUD OF YOUR LITTLENESS AND OWN IT
33: ANY SUPERVISING ADULT HAS THE RIGHT TO MAKE MORE RULES AS THE SITUATION DICTATES
FAILURE TO FOLLOW ANY OF THESE RULES WILL RESULT IN AN IMMEDIATE SPANKING; YOUR PUNISHMENT WILL INCREASE WITH EACH INFRACTION
PUNISHMENTS FOR BAD BEHAVIOR MAY INCLUDE: corner time chair time spankings enemas and suppositories chastity devices double diapers loss of big boy privileges butt plug tickle torture
Ideas for rewards: ice cream toys/plushies gain of big boy priveleges being allowed to eat adult food tv time being allowed to cum getting to suck Daddyâs paci later bedtime stickers and gold stars
Note: I cannot take full credit for this list. Some of the text and ideas for this list have been taken and adapted from the story âTwisted Fateâ and a number of other sources. My thanks to the authors for all their ideas and many hours of fun at the computer screen -Champ
Diaper Discipline when you struggle with the AB part of your partnerâs desires
Two things Iâll highlight straight away are:
1. Most people who like to wear or be forced to wear diapers have a desire to incorporate other adult baby elements. The base level varies by person but Iâve noticed that most people trend towards being more AB over time.â¨
2. Lots of partners of ABDLâs struggle with the AB part more than the diaper part. Exactly why is hard to know but I feel most commonly itâs to do with it making it feel too close to being a real baby. They struggle to separate Adult Baby from Baby in their minds.
So how do you reconcile this difference if your ABDL partner wants to incorporate more babyish elements and you as their partner struggle most with those elements.
Before I give some options I want to first get you to remember one of the key elements of successful diaper discipline, it has to be more than they want and it sometimes shouldnât be fun for them.
So if they want a bit of babying and you donât like that part how can you give them more than they want to fulfil the control element they crave?
Babying can go from themed diapers to having a full nursery room in your home. At a minimum even if you donât like babying elements I think you do have to embrace ABDL diapers, ABDL onesies and some sort of diaper changing area. I would then highly recommend you experiment (with an open mind) with pacifiers and bottles before progressing onto more babyish activities.
However if their babyish diapers, onesies and the changing mat at the end of your bed are your limit what can you doâŚ
I feel the answer is to compensate for not fulfilling this element of their desire with stricter diaper rules and also adding in other elements of control.
So Iâd seriously consider returning them to diapers full time with the diaper discipline focus them being treated as both bladder and bowel incontinent.
Keep exceptions to a minimum and add humiliation elements without exposing them or others. Tease them about being messy, donât let them change straight away and force them to use their diapers using laxatives and suppositories.
Also to further play to the control aspect, experiment by combining diapers with chastity, bondage or spankings.
Chastity goes great with diapers and can also be good for male partners in preventing post-orgasm lows.
Bondage makes for great punishments especially when combined with laxatives. You can also use a low level on bondage on a daily basis by using a locking diaper cover or securing your partner to their work desk at home.
Spanking is something a lot of people enjoy and can be used on a maintenance basis (theyâve done nothing specific wrong) or as a punishment for an action.
Finally checking and changing them doesnât have to be a babyish activity. You can adopt the persona of them being incontinent and youâre caring for them, or if you have a more dom streak this is a way youâre directly controlling them. But them losing the ability to change themselves is a very strong tool you should use.
Low-Key Things We Do to Keep Our Dynamic Fun:
Pack stuffies for when we travel or go out! Obviously, babyboy can't sleep without his stuffies, even in a hotel... right?
Bring a diapee bag, even if we don't plan to use it!
Momma tax and butt pats: basically, if we hug, we're gonna grope, pat, and tease the other one. The pullup princess needs to be reminded she can be momma... and still a pullup princess!
Lots of physical closeness. On the couch we drape across one another, when hugging we keep it going a long time, when we get dinner, we regularly feed each other a bite! Just lots of lovey closeness-inducing things, nonstop!
Getting our partner food and water cuz "babies can be so forgetful" and tons of affectionate caregiver stuff. It's nice to be reminded it's "brekky time, sweetheart!" Is very fun and keeps our relationship kinky and cute!
Writing cute pictures and reminders to your partner, everyday. On the fridge, on post it notes, by text! Keep the fun going by showing a lot of daily affection and attention!
Making sure it's called the "potty" and an upset stomach is a "grumbly tummy" and using language that reminds you both... this is an ABDL or CG/L dynamic!
Names: I'm baby prince papi, not just my name. She's momma, or princess... we make sure the right title reinforces the right role!
Cummies apart don't mean much, when your mommy/ daddy/ caregiver partner expects you to THANK THEM and make lots of "cute noises"... suddenly your quick masturbating session feels much more controlled and kinky!
Help your partner pick their clothes! If they wear diapees, even if they change themselves make sure you watch and "help".
When they cross the street, hold their hand and give them praise for being good and holding on tight... REINFORCE the dynamic in little, subtle, private ways and you'll be far, far more invested and happy in the dynamic you build together!
Sharing in passions: my princess loves sports and I couldn't care less, but i'll celebrate her team's victories and be excited, the same way she celebrates and embraces my weird rants about the 1800s British navy, or the intricacies of bird mating habits... whatever fleeting interests we have, we share and get positive feedback on! And EXTRA points if you can tease about them being an excited little baby!
My point is this: 24/7 dynamics aren't all about sex and kink and nonstop sexytime or fetish play. But they can exist with daily reinforcement, reminders, and celebrating your nontraditional dynamics! So have fun, let your kinky self out, and don't forget to be happy, healthy, AUTHENTIC kinky people!
- Scribbler
Hey my fellow littles! So some time ago I was browsing through some site and came across 30 rules for a little. I canât for the life of me remember where I got it or who made it originally. But I do still have the screenshots. Now, this is only 20, thatâs because the other rules were a bit NSFW, and thatâs not what I want these rules to be about. I want them to be rules that a little could take to their Daddy or Mommy, or that a Daddy/Mommy could have their little follow. I really wish that I had a Daddy or Mommy to enforce these rules for me. But I donât, so I will just share them with the world and hopefully it will help some other little, or parent of a little. Enjoy!
1. You will not speak like a big boy or girl 2. No bad words 3. Never touch your diaper 4. If you need a diaper change you must find an appropriate way to tell an adult using baby talk 5. Never remove your clothes 6. Never fuss or talk back to grown ups 7. You will wear whatever you are put in without complaining about it 8. Never attempt to hide anything a grown up gives you in public 9. You will use only your diapers to relieve yourself, even while in public 10. Never feed yourself unless told to 11. If an adult puts in your paci you will not remove it 12. You will only play with baby toys 13. You must obey all grown ups (anyone over 5 years old is a grown up to you) 14. Never resist a diaper change, even in public 15. Never resist nap time 16. Never speak out of turn 17. Bedtime is at 8:00 PM every night 18. You must hold an adults hand when crossing the street 19. If left alone, you must be in a crib, a highchair, a playpen or secured in some way 20. If someone asks, you must admit you are wearing a diaper, no matter how many people are around
The Daddy's Compendium To Interacting With His ABDL Boy
An ongoing WIP project by Young'N'Rebellious!
Iâve divided the following into 4 categories - Ideas (To be split into Fun Ideas and Punishment Ideas), Activities, Things To Say (To be split into Positive/Reassuring Things and Not So Positive/Teasing Things), and Advice & General ABDL Info/Knowledge.
Feel free to comment anything you feel needs to be added or is missing! Hope this helps somebody as much as it has my own Daddy! I will update this Compendium as I add more stuff and make new revisions! :) Credit to friends, followers, life experiences, myself & personal ABDL experiences, and most notably amazing sources like ABDL Dadâs very well written blogs and like-wise materials!
IDEAS: * Stand outside the bathroom whenever your little one goes potty if heâs not padded at that time, then ask him if he made it in time and check to make sure he did before praising or scolding him accordingly! * Act like your boy is too big for diapers until he gives you a -reason- to put him back in Diapers, Pull-Ups, or Training Pants! * Often ask your boy if he has to go potty, or if he âalready went.â Whether heâs diapered or not (more ESPECIALLY if heâs notâŚ) Even better if you can get away with it in public, and -always- ask before or when going anywhere. * If he has to go, ask him how bad and if its an emergency. * Ask him whether he wants to try and be a big boy or to just use his diaper or âhave an accidentâ, give him the choice to try and be a big boy, then go along with it, whether he decides to succeed or to fail at it. * Before you let your ABDL boy rush out the door, have him stop and then check his clothes carefully. Fix the belt on his jeans. Adjust his diaper so that it shows just slightly above the waist and then pull his shirt down carefully over it. Give him a kiss on the cheek and tell him how wonderful he is and how adorable he looks. * If your little guy canât wear diapers in the day, have him carry a Pull-Ups in his back pack. He might complain that someone might see it or find it. Assure him no one will ever notice. He may never even look at it, but knowing that itâs close at hand will give him a sense of security. * Instead of regular underwear, surprise your little with a pair of training pants! * Slip a pacifier into your boyâs pocket on the way out the door, imagine the blush when he reaches into his pocket and finds it! * If your boy wears a watch, take some diaper tape and attach it around the band. Call him later in the day and ask what time it is. If anyone knows that itâs no ordinary tape it will be him â youâll hear the smile right through the phone line. * Most important of all, when your boy gets home give him a super long hug. Then say âletâs get you changedâ. Donât turn it into a big production⌠just âletâs get you changedâ is enough â it says that Sunday wasnât some special day all its own and that even though thereâs a whole world of things to do heâs always his daddyâs little boy no matter where they are or what theyâre doing! * Punish your boy for having a potty mouth, not just for having potty pants (if evenâŚ) * Pretend potty-train your boy even if you know heâs gonna use his diaper and have Onpurpsidents anyways. * Change your boyâs diaper when it leaks whether he wants it changed or not, and if he puts up too much of a fuss put him on time out! * Find ways to subtly make your boy feel little in public, it always makes their cheeks turn so red and adorable! * Set a Bedtime even when he wants to talk or play. * Try to get him to do something âlittleâ (like ride a carousel for example.) Or have him do 2 random sporadic things a day that a cub would do impulsively and reward the behavior. * Punish your boy for sticking his tongue out. * Make your boy sit on Time Out in the corner and think about what he did in his wet or messy diaper or clothing. (with consent) * Bounce your boy on your knee * Give you boy discrete Diaper checks in public * Whisper loving things into your boyâs ears * * * * * * * *
ACTIVITIES: * Read a story to your little! * Feed you boy a bottle of milk (Preferably warm, maybe sweetened too!) * Take him to a Park to play * Teach him how to do something new * Let him help with something (Cooking, Laundry, etc) * Snuggling! * Take your boy to the mall * Watch Childhood Movies and Cartoons with him. * Go see a Movie with him. * Play games with him. * Put a puzzle together with each other (Not one with too many pieces though, thatâs too hard and the smaller piece may be choking hazards! ;P) * Color pictures together * Catch bugs together * Go Fishing together * Pretend Potty Training (Play along and encourage them, whether they decide to succeed or fail.) * Give your boy a bubble bath * Build a blanket fort together * Go Hiking in the woods * Take a camping trip and let your boy enjoy nature as a little, free of worries, and pants! * * * * * * * * * * *
THINGS TO SAY: * Call your boy names he likes that make him feel little, blush, or embarrass him. * Remind him how little he is! * Often remind him how little you -think- he is * Tell him how much he means to you! * Remind your little what he needs your help doing! * Randomly ask your boy if he has to go potty. * Ask your boy if he can hold it or if its an emergency * Randomly ask your boy if he had an accident, even if you know he didnât. * âLetâs get you changed.â * âBe a big boy and hold it, or not, daddy wont tell anybody and will get you cleaned up/changed.â * âI swear to god if you poop your pantsâŚâ * âDid you poop your pants?â * âCome here, are you wet again already?â * âYou purposely didnât make it didnât you?â * âIts okay, accidents happen! Letâs go get you cleaned up/Changed.â * âYouâre not going to bed without a Diaper on!â * * * * * * * * * * * * * *
ADVICE & GENERAL ABDL INFO/KNOWLEDGE: * Kiss him on the forehead * Tickle him! * Blow raspberries on their tummy! * Tease your ABDL boy but not too much or too harshly. * Smile at your boy a lot * Give him reassurance * Pat and touch their diaper a lot * Establish your own set of rules and consequences for him. * Donât make cracks about body hair, it ruins the immersion and fantasy! * Donât let or make your boy dress himself, thatâs Daddyâs job! * Try to let him choose his outfit, I know Daddy needs his fun too sometimes but freedom to be himself and comfortable is an important priority. * Let your boy sit in your lap or on your leg/knee. * Punish your boy when heâs naughty or bratty. Time Outs are a great and reliable alternative to Spankings. Little Boys HATE Time Outs. ;) * Be stern but donât overdo it, show you still care about them and are loving! * Baby talk your boy but donât overdo it, just make them feel loved and cared for. * Light touching and eye contact is important to intimacy. * Give your little guy a safe, trusting, and caring space in which to express his little side. * Make sure your boy knows what he did if he poops or pees his pants, it makes them feel so little! * Most ABDL have had a rocky background and are full of insecurities * Make sure your boy leaves padded so that he doesnât have an accident in public! (Not a noticeable one anyways⌠accidents still happen.) * Hold onto him, donât expect him to hold onto you, heâs the young boy, heâs the insecure one who needâs your loving embrace and reassurance! * Check on him during naps and maybe give his diaper seat a reassuring rub. * If you wake up at night for any reason, check on your boy and rub his diaper a little and check it before going back to bed. * Change your boy as frequently as needed, maybe more if he enjoys Diaper changes a lot! * Check your boyâs diaper constantly (At least twice an hour), whether he needs it or not, it makes him feel secure and cared for! It also Keeps him reminded of what a little boy he is for not being able (or choosing not to) to keep his diaper dry or clean. * -Always- get your little dressed/changed for bed and tuck him in! Make sure his plushie is in his arms and his paci is in his mouth! Donât forget to check under the bed and in the closet for monsters! Check his diaper one last time, just for the heck of it, and if heâs already soggy, tease him a bit so he falls asleep feeling little. :) *It goes without saying that little boys always want to act like big boys even though they need you to help them feel little! Your little boy might Smoke, Drink, Vape, or be a recreational drug user. You are NOT the police, donât act like it! Decide together what adult habits and vices you are okay with and which ones your little is allowed to have during âLittle timeâ. People often canât let these vices go no matter how regressed they become so keep that in mind, donât make your little feel ashamed or self conscious and ruin his immersion/fantasy because of these vices. * A lot of littles like remaining wet or messy for some time, so there doesnât need to be a rush to change them unless it goes against your personal preference, smells exceptionally ripe, or they ask! * Some littles even enjoy leaking, and wear their dark spots proudly as badges! * Itâs not just the diaper that connects him to you. Thereâs something incredibly powerful and special about being in his diapers, and it is an explicit and needed connection in his relationship to you. * Little boys like to try to be big boys and not tell you when they have to go potty, and they might end up having an accident. When they do, do not scold them but tell them you are proud of them for trying to be a big boy and then change their clothes and clean them up and if possible, put them in a clean Diaper! * Make diaper changes significant; donât be a robot! Changing a diaper becomes like riding a bike at some point, but that doesnât mean a Daddy should abstain from talking to their little, teasing them, or letting them help by holding the wipes (careful with giving them the powder though!) * Make eye contact and smile during diaper changes, this makes your boy feel reassured and safe, and reminds him you care and want to get him all cleaned up. * Sometimes little boys have accidents in their big boy pants around the house. If the carpet or furniture gets wet, donât be angry with your boy! (Unless he did it on purpose!) Remind him that he was a good boy for trying to hold it like a big boy. After you change him, just wipe up or dab the wet spot with a clean damp towel and turn a fan on in the room. The wet spot from his accident will air dry overnight and the moving air from the fan will prevent the area from smelling like a urinal/bathroom. * Do not display unsettledness over furniture or floors, you donât want your little to feel like youâre prioritizing a couch or strip of fabric before him and his emotional/core needs⌠* Diapers were not designed to be soaked. No matter WHAT a daddy does he should never get angry at his son for a wet couch, carpet, or clothes. A boy should know that itâs safe and right to use his diapers in what ever way he needs to, and creating any shame around leaks will will make it tougher for the little guy to feel that he belongs in his diapers or might make him nervous to use them.YOU should have asked him if he had to pee and if so how much. And YOU should have known how wet he already was, Itâs not his fault so bare no anger. * When cleaning ups leaks, place paper towels over the wet spots before smiling warmly and taking your little to change and THEN wipe or dab up the wet spot all the way and let it air dry! You donât want your little to feel as though youâre more worried about a couch or rug than them, that can easily make a little feel less important and self conscious. * Sometimes, a wet spot on his bum while in public might be a little embarrassing, but daddy should both provide reassurance and have back-up plans in place â a sweater wrapped around the boyâs waist if itâs serious, a reassuring pat on the shoulder and diapered bum for those âmaybe people will notice or maybe notâ moments, and a spare pair of shorts or jeans in the diaper bag if itâs a longer day out. * Whenever you take your baby boy anywhere, always bring a bag or backpack with 2 spare sets of clothes and at least 2 fresh diapers, a spare pair of shorts or jeans, as well as wipes, clean hand towels, and powder! You should be ready to discreetly change your little boy anywhere at any time. Even if you donât use the travel bag, he gains reassurance and feels more little just from you having it around! * Moderation is key, drowning a little in affection all the time can tend to become a chore for both of you after a while, but everyone has their personal limit! * Make sure your boy has his Paci or Stuffy during diaper changes! Or at the very least ask them where they are. * Your boy has a literal list of Core Needs that need to be met. Its both of your job to find out what they are and how to meet them! *If more needs are going unmet than are being met it can affect them negatively emotionally, causing depression, anxiety, or even turning the relationship toxic. * Part-Time Daddies with family, friends, and jobs have it rough! Most ABDL boys long for a full time, living together companion who can be there day and night to respond to their mood shifts and needs as they go in and out of phases and different emotions. Not someone for whom they are their âsecret lifeâ, but someone for whom they ARE their life, an equal partner, without shame, secrecy or the closet. Someone with whom they can set them self free with and truly be them self with 24/7/365. Someone who brings out their favorite things about them self and isnât ashamed of those things. * Not every day will be a walk in the park. If every day was the same or predictable, that would be the same as flat-lining. Hiccups are a sign life; Disagreements happen, fights are a thing, and growing pains are common. Never forget that beyond all these roles are two human beings trying to grow closer. Always keep adventuring and be open to experimenting & experiencing. -Always- keep communicating. The goal should be to integrate the daddy/little dynamic into your life together. Trust in yourselves to find a balance that works for both of you! * Remember that being in a relationship with a Little is as valid and meaningful as any other type of relationship. The Daddy not only has to be the keeper of ALL of his boyâs needs, but also treat him with the unconditional love, respect, and trust as you would -any- relationship. * Remember the ABDL community is a small one, and your Little Boy may want to have other Little friends, as well as other older friends. Remember not every relationship MUST be monogamous to be healthy. Talk honestly with your Little Boy to learn each otherâs boundaries regarding interacting with other Littles or Adults. Work together to decide what is right for YOUR relationship, be flexible, never judgmental, and always love your little unconditionally. Remember wherever he might go play and no matter what he will -always- love you the most and come back to be with you! * If your living situation is such that you donât have your Little Boy living WITH you, remember that even out on his own doing every day adult things, that he still needs to know you are his Daddy and you love him and are there for him! Make a plan with your Little Boy on days you arenât together to be in touch by voice or text or IM in the morning, at mid day, and at night. Make a schedule that works for you both. NEVER go to sleep for the night without having talked with him, and sleep with your ringers on. ALWAYS be reachable for each other! * * *
A very common theme weâre hearing from partners on both sides of the relationship is the challenge of going 24/7 or even just trying to make diaper wearing the default.
We experienced this too so have put together a list of the many ways weâve experienced exceptions to wearing/using diapers happening and how to overcome them.
Preventing exceptions with 24/7 and no toilet rules
Keeping your partner in diapers 24/7 and banning the use of the toilet sounds simple and clean-cut in theory but the reality is day-to-day life throws up lots of exceptions and inconveniences which make sticking to this hard.
Sticking to it as closely as possible is critical though as one exception leads to another and then extremely quickly it all falls apart. So here are some common challenges you might get and how to deal with them.
I need a #2 but Iâve just changed into a fresh diaper
Unfortunately your partner should have gone in their last diaper and if they need to go now then they have to just use their clean one. Wasting clean diapers shouldnât be encouraged so hold off changing them for at least 2 hours.â¨
Iâm going for a run / playing sport
Very active sports and running is challenging while diapered but not impossible. Weâd recommend allowing them to wear a thin breathable diaper or a pull-up for the duration. Once finished, they should be straight back into a proper diaper, donât allow this to be a way for them to get extended time out of diapers.â¨
Weâre going out and changing will be inconvenient
Being out of the house or on a day trip is not an excuse for them to be out of diapers. Pack a diaper bag and if you think changing will be hard dress them in a thick diaper for the day. Also encourage them to use their diaper for a #2 before you leave.â¨Help give them confidence by picking out clothes which hide their diaper well and telling them how you canât even tell (even if thatâs a slight lie).
Weâre going to be at the beach/pool all day
If theyâre going to be primarily in the water then dress them in a swim diaper. If it will be sun bathing with an occasional swim, then dress them in a disposal diaper with refastenable tapes which will allow it to be taken off easily for them to change into a swim diaper and back again afterwards.â¨
I donât have time to check / change you as much today
Easy solution = thick diapers + booster if required. These will hold them for 6+ hours without you or them having to do a change. Also allow them to change themselves by asking for permission over a message first if you canât change them yourself.
Theyâre not feeling well
When your partner is ill, then diapers should still be insisted upon. Use thick diapers and plastic pants to avoid leaks and change them / let them change more often to avoid rashes.â¨
Someone might notice
If your going for a meal or drinks with friends or any other activity where theyâll be self-conscious about being noticed, still insist on a diaper but do the following to help. Let them wear a thiner medical diaper, have them wear a plain onesie and help them pick out clothes which hide the diaper well. Finally make sure to tell them that you canât tell and give reassurance.â¨Over time as their confidence builds switch to thicker diapers.
What if it smells?
You might be out of the house, on vacation or travelling when they have the need to go #2. It would be easier for everyone just to let them use a toilet but you must avoid this. â¨Instead tell them that they have to use their diaper but itâs ok and thatâs what theyâre for. Make arrangements for them to be able to change afterwards but this doesnât need to be immediately.â¨Using internal deodorant tablets like Devrom can reduce the smell significantly so we recommend using these more aggressively around vacations, day trips or travel where messy diapers in public is a more likely situation.
Extending time around exceptions
You might allow diaper free exceptions for work or around family but the danger is this extends for long periods either side. Make sure that after returning from work youâre there to diaper them or if youâre not free, leave a diaper out with instructions for them to change into it straight away.â¨Or if say youâre at a family event and staying overnight, still change them into a diaper for bedtime.â¨If youâre traveling back from a family event and the travel time is more than an hour stop at the first opportunity and have him get diapered.â¨
Iâm out of diapers
It sounds obvious but accidentally running out of diapers can cause a big gap in their wearing as you really donât want to have to switch to store diapers.â¨Make sure to keep track of your diaper stock and Iâd recommend always having a 1 month buffer of diapers available.â¨The easiest time to run out is when away from home or on vacation. Make sure to plan how many youâll need and then add a good buffer of extra diapers.
Mig
I create a rules for DD/lb in several categories. I would appreciate any feedback. Wrninig !!! My english is not very good :D !!! I hope you like it at least a little bit
Wearing Incontinence-Underwear can give you an unique sense of comfort, confidence and freedom. It also ensures safety from leakage and moisture. Incontinence products are designed using the most innovative technology that makes them harmless and comfortable to wear for long hours.
Using adult diapers is extremely convenient and cost-effective option. It helps you stay relaxed and feel sense of security both emotionally and physically.
Yet there are many people out there who find it quiet difficult to overcome their dilemma or all misconceptions about wearing adult diapers.
Wants.
I want to be padded in super thick, poofy padding.
I want to be caged, and a vibrating plug inserted in me.
I want to be constantly reminded to drink lots of water so I can have lots of soggy accidents.
I want to have my padding rubbed, poked, prodded, and stroked.
I want to be reminded how Iâm just a little baby, who has no control, will have constant accidents, and can do nothing about it.
I want to be restrained, unable to escape, vulnerable, embarrassed, and humiliated to the point that Iâm super blushy.
I want to be forced to take an enema. Full and desperate, trying to hold back the inevitble mess that will end up in my crinkles.
I want to be teased about how Iâm a little âtinker, while having the mess squished around. Yet another reminder that Iâm such a baby. Big kids donât wear diapers, or make messes in them.
I want to be dressed up in a girly outfit, full diaper exposed, and forced to suck on a cute padded boyâs âspecial pacifierâ.
I want to be teased, having a magic wand buzzing up and down my full padding.
These thoughts will always have me squirming in my seat. The shit that I think about early Tuesday morning, whilst at work. o.o
Mommy's 25 Diaper Rules
1) Baby is now 2 years old from here on.
2) Diapers are to be worn anytime a baby would normally have a diaper on until mommy decides otherwise. Diapers will be used for everything restroom related at home and in public.
2a) If baby consistantly holds the need to wet or mess while in public until returning home it might become a requirement that baby either takes laxatives each morning or an enema before going out to promote becoming comfortable using his diapers as needed and to become accustomed to the wet and/or messy feeling while out and about.
3) You are not allowed to remove or adjust your diaper for any reason.
4) Only mommy or an approved babysitter can change your diaper. Regular checks will be performed anytime and anywhere. Mommy will try to be discrete if possible, but checks will be performed regularly and you must allow for your diaper to be inspected immediately when requested to do so. Diaper checks and changes are performed at mommy's convenience and they cannot be prevented by baby for any reason.
5) When baby messes his diaper at home it is required that a squatting position be maintained as to serve an a visable non-verbal warning to mommy or babysitter that a diaper change will be needed soon.
6) You absolutely cannot enter a restroom without mommy being with you.
7) Using a potty is now forbidden until otherwise stated.
8) Baby is forbidden from touching any private parts underneath or through a diaper.
9) You are now mommy's little baby and any sexual contact with mommy is not alloud while wearing your diapers.
10) Baby may only wear a shirt and diaper while at home in order to allow for mommy to easily see when a change is needed. Anything covering your diaper is forbidden unless permission is given by mommy.
Note: No covering the diaper at home is one of the most important rules in making diapers a longterm or even permanent addition to your littles life. Over time they will become accustomed to seeing themselves in a diaper and not thinking about it. Your little will start to become fine with dressing for comfort and not to hide anything. After several weeks they will start to be fine with dressing more comfortable in public and may eventually not even try to hide their diaper anymore since it's not even a second thought to them.
10a) In public jeans or sweatpants will usually be alloud. Pants will adequately cover the baby's diaper. However, jeans and sweatpants worn out will not be so big that the diaper buldge, swelling from usage and diaper outlines are not visable preventing easy checks.
10b) Gym and work out clothing will generally be a little tighter fitting than jeans and sweatpants.
10c) When having to attend class or work a onesie will be permitted wear as to assist in holding any wet or messy diaper sags in place until baby can return home and can be appropriately changed by an approved adult.
10d) If mommy or an approved babysitter places your pacifier/binky in your mouth at anytime it must remain in place until removed by the caregiver. You may not talk or babble during pacifier time.
11) While at home any drinks will be given in a bottle or sippy cup with a lid. Absolutely no glass cups or anything without a lid can be used by baby.
12) 3 days a week will consist of only baby food being offered. Usually this will be Monday, Wednesday and Saturday.
13) Baby will not use adult language or big words for any reason. Only a babyish babble, baby appropriate sign language, non-verbal signals, crying or pointing with the occasional small/age appropriate word can be used when trying to communicate all wants and needs with mommy or a supervising adult.
14) Mommy will pick out your outfits anytime it is necessary to go out in public and will assist you in getting dressed. Selected outfits must be worn without complaints.
15) All hair must be removed from the diapered area and must be maintained smooth.
16) A diaper must be immediately put back on as soon as bathtime is finished. Mommy will supervise each bath time for baby's safety.
17) You will be respectful to all adults and do as you are told.
18) You cannot hide, lie or be ashamed of your diapers since they are necessary- be proud. If asked if you are wearing a diaper by any adult you must respond correctly.
19) Baby cannot be left at home alone. An adult such as a babysitter will always be present if mommy is not available.
20) When crossing any street baby must hold mommy's or babysitters hand.
21) Big boy underwear must be put in storage until further notice and diapers will be stored in their place. Mommy will select any color or style of diapers she wishes and will keep a home supply maintained.
22) Bedtime is 10:30pm sharp, unless stated otherwise.
23) Mommy's or a supervising adults rules will be followed at all times.
24) Failure to follow the required rules will result in a punishment ranging from extra time between diaper changes, an enema or up to an indefinite amount of time wearing diapers 24/7 being required.
25) Mommy or any supervising adult/babysitter reserves the right to add, change or remove any rule at anytime as they desire.
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